this girl I dated for a while.... a couple of years ago has just broken up with her boyfriend (HELL YEAH) who had been together for a year and a half.... I had a severe case of one-itis. I did what I should do and went out and gamed and screwed other women but then I chatted with her other day and well..... I still like her.

So she tells me she and him broken up blah blah blah and I pretended to be really sorry (might not have been wise) but i'm stuffed with what to do. I don't see her too often so each time we speak/see each other its got to mean something. What advice do you guys have to try and get her back with me? Sensitive approach (not my preferred) or what? I usually run the cocky-funny shit but I feel this would not be the best time to use that?


Any ideas would be much appreciated

peace x

Oz

you 2 already know each other, so you passed that whole stage. i think you should come off as different. she hasnt seen you for a while, so she has no idea of who you are now, ya know? i would look back and change all the things you should have changed back then....it'll make her want you. hope this helps

ive found that with ex's you gotta revert back to a little c and f, flirting etc etc to respark the whole attraction thing. I would treat it like gaming a normal hb only you have comfort etc etc so its gonna be easier (or maybe not...)

Plus she's probably not looking for a relationship so you gotta be like the adventure/excitement and just build it from there.

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yeh guys this is awesome...but what kinda things are we talkin to be more exciting? since we have had a relationship before she knows me pretty well.....if someone cud map out or list somethings necessary that wud be ultimate. cheers lads.

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bring up a "story" of how your "friend" had sex in a weird place with his girl....public wc, the beach, anywhere. ask her her opinion in one way shape or form. if she responds positive to it by saying something along the lines of "wow, that must be a rush!", or something like that....then that's ur cue to escalate


if she responds negative to it....then tell her she doesn't have enough fun and adventure in her life and neg her bout that. good luck mate!

cheers buddy. ill see how things work out

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