Have you ever been at a party and have a girl come up to you and say youre hot, or a girl text or facebook message you "youre really hot"

How do you respond to this without sounding arrogent and alltogether dumb.

All I can ever come up with on the spot is "thanks" or "im flattered" and I feel like I sound really stupid saying it.

Note: I am always very reluctant to respond as "you're very hot too" (especially if the girl isnt hot)

I want to find something more intelligent and charming to say back.

be arrogant, just in a sarcastic way.

I'd be like "I know I'm amazing right" Just use body language and tone to seem like I'm just playing...

If they do that little giggle thing, then just start talking.

well it takes a lot of balls for a girl to come over to you telling you youre hot in real life.

it doesnt on the i-net and it hasnt happened to me tbh (OMG IM SUCH A UGLY GUY!) but i-net is lame.

It would be stupid to directly neg a girl if she comes over and tells you how hot you are. the girls who come over and be direct like that are usually very high value girls. if you think they are hot too, tell them, but also try to make them aware of a small imperfection in their clothing or whatever thats not genetical.

if you think they are ugly, don't tell them, cause its not a nice thing to say.
warpigs need love too.


i dunno if its a good or a bad thing if a girls comes over and tells you youre hot though, would a girl really have the balls to come over and risk it all and break all the rules off the game to come over to a high value guy to tell them he is hot?

GOODGAME

The absolute best way to handle this is inner game confidence. Act as if this isn't uncommon to you, if its out at a club or a bar just give a smile, small kino and a thanks. And move on, come back to her later, by doing this she'll have time to think about it and then be presently suprised by your return. If online, i guess just saying something like, "i'm not that easy babe " or something along these lines. DONT COMPLIMENT HER BACK, and even saying im flattered gives off the vibe that this is unusual to you.

^ ion think its that big of a deal. If you think of it from the girls perspective she's just havin fun, and playing around hoping the guy responds well...

I had the same problem at one point where a girl was talkin about someone being ugly or some shit, & I looked & she said "No, not you, your gorgeous" & Kinda like waited for a response, & I just kinda brushed her off outta not knowing what to do, cuz It kinda throws you off when girls are on the offensive, but its no different from any other situation, just use humor & witt.

what i have always done and has worked well in this situation is to give them a pretty penetrating look and pause for a second before saying '...thanks' like get hear it all the time. This builds a lot of tension which i release by breaking into a smile and saying somthing situational. Then i imediatly get the girl to qaulify herself to me.

"I try" is good C&F IRL...idk about online

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HB: "You are Hot"

You: "Tell me something I don't know" w/ a James Bond sly smile
You: "Don't expect me to keep you warm all night" Straight face
You: " You gotta step up your game to pick me up"

You: "What a cheezy pick up line" w/ a James Bond sly smile
You: "I know the last girl went sweating after hugging me"
You: "That makes one of us" Straight face

any compliment a girl says reply: RESPECT!

Had a similar thing the other day from a girl I sort of know but had decided to game that night. She didn't say "You're hot" she said "You're REALLY cool!" (yes she did put emphasis on the really) and I replied something like "Yeh......I know {smile} it took you this long to notice {smile+kino}" she smiled etc, then I turned to my buddy to get a drink, 2 minutes later she comes running up, grabs me and says "come and dance!".

So yeah I'd have to say go with the CF frame.

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^^^ good examples, well.. some of them
pretty much you just have to react in a fashion that it happens all the time,

"your hot"

" *haha* thats the best you could come up with?
" *heh* "you expect me to (start looking over your shoulder like your not interested) be flattered by that" or "is that your best shot?"

obviously she thinks she is good looking, and/or confident... enough to the point to approach someone who she thinks is goodlooking, so... you neg... defiantly neg... unless shes a warpig... then you just flat out reject... well that my opinion anyways

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I'm going to speak in Mystery Method language here because a lot of dudes here seem to like to think in that language.

If a girl opens you, especially by telling you you're hot, the "attraction phase" is OVER. There is no need to be cocky with this girl. She is already attracted to you, and in all likelihood, she is trying to get LAID.

So make it easy for her.

I'd smile, motion for her to come closer, peck her on the lips, Claw, ask her name, and basically skip straight to S1. Heavy kino, token rapport with heavy flirting, and seed the extraction immediately.

If the girl doesn't think you like her, she's going to leave for greener pastures. And by "greener pastures," I mean "a guy with enough confidence to man up and pull when he's presented with vagina on a silver platter." No hard-to-get, no cockiness, no qualification. This girl wants sex, and that's what you should be giving her.

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stormy i dont nessecarly agree with you. This is def not a ticket to jump all the way to s1. First off you can look at this like a shit test. And also if anything you should be in A3 phase with male to female intrest.

Ah this is an easy one. I've had this happen and the best way to reply is:

"I know, right!? That's so crazy cuz my friends and I were just talking about how hot I am and it's so funny that you came in at the perfect time!"

Easy...

HB - ''You're hot''
You - ''Hi, I'm - Insert name''

Then, ask her name and start your routine... cool, calm, and showed higher value by brushing off the compliment, she will be thinking... wow, hot and a player...

Cheers

CHLLXX

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