we've all been caught staring at a girl, it's embarrassing as hell. But i've found a way to turn getting caught into an opener.

If you're staring at a girl and she turns and sees you, here's what you do. you give her a dirty look. not a "your a piece of shit" look, more like a "you just pissed me off" look. You'll almost always get a wtf look back, then you just turn away.

wait about five minutes, if she hasn't already came over and talked to you, and stare at her again. give her the same look but this time when she gives you a look back, throw in a smile and a nod or a wink or whatever your style is.

After that just read the situation, go over and talk to her or just let her come over to you. I've tried this out the last couple weeks and it hasn't failed me yet.

tell me what you think and how you might change it.

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Giving her a weird look? Sorry, but no. If it works for you, that's great, but I certainly wouldn't recommend it. If she's into you, I can imagine that'd actually put her off... so maybe you're not explaining it properly. In all honesty you should never be caught staring at a girl cos if you like her, you should be over there talking to her. This is a case of prevention rather than cure.

It you get busted just walk over and say "I thought I would come over and talk to you. I felt stalking eyes following me every where I went." and give a BIG SMILE.

"we've all been caught staring at a girl, it's embarrassing as hell."



WTF dude are you really a man?
embarrassing? lol

they love being stared at, its what they do, thats why they dress up and make themselves all pretty.

if she stands next to you and turns around while youre staring at her and gives you the WTF are you looking at me look. just tell her she's damn hot and say it in a bold way and give a neg afterwards.

don't apologize for looking at girls man, i get this serious feeling youre a keyjocky, no offence but with so many posts you still dont get it.

I'm not necessarily using this as a precaution, I usually use this as an opener. If you're in a club or some shit like that, ya you shouldn't waste your time staring at her you should be talking to her. this is more of a situation where you can't really talk to her at the moment.

I generally use it when i'm sitting in class in the middle of a lecture or sometime when i can't go right over and talk to her. and it's true, it shouldn't be embarrassing anymore to be caught staring, i was just remembering my afc days which weren't too long ago

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whatever you do, if you're "caught staring", do not give into the urge to quickly look away if they see you. I don't know about you guys but when I'm checking a girl out in class or on the bus or wutever, when she looks at me, I get a strong urge to quickly look away. The key is to keep cool, keep looking at her (in the eye preferably) and smile. The dirty look thing might work on some girls, with the right delivery, if you're going with the goofball angle, which rarely works. Ummm on second thought I'd just not do it. The odds of it coming off as creepy are too high.

lol, giving the wrong girl an angry look can get you beat up bro.

I do have a problem with awkward looks... Not getting caught starring, but when they look, I cant tell if their looking at me in a good way, or just looking cuz they noticed me looking. that irritates the shit outta me tho, next time it happens I'ma just say some shit.

if you're worried about being beat up, you're not AMOG. grow a pair and be confident. confidence is 90% of pickup

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This sort of thing happens. There's no way around it.

Maybe you juuuuuuuuuuust spotted the girl while she was looking away from you and you haven't had time to decide yet if she's hot enough for you to make a move, and the second you look at her, she turns and looks at you. Or maybe you actually broke the three-second rule. Whatever.

Sheer Con's got basically the right idea. Looking away is the worst thing you can do.

As long as you're not looking away, there are plenty of "right" things to do. Wink and smile, do the Retard Wave, walk over immediately, whatever. Just don't look away and don't keep staring. You need to do SOMETHING, and you need to do it quick. I like sticking my tongue out at girls. Hooray playful vibe!

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I usually give a big smile and wave. Most of the time, they respond positively and I approach if I'm not busy. Sometimes they give that 'fuck off' look, and I'll shrug while still smiling.

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yea this approach is best. gambler talks about this in the ultimate natural dvd. he calls it forcing the ioi. if u give a wave and smile and the girl responds positively it means she is interested. if not u know not to approach.

Yeh I usually pull a tongue which gets em smiling... the rest is upto you!

Giving dirty looks dont make you the alpha male. It can offend people or scare'em

at least thats my opinion, But I think alot of girls getting dirty looks from some strange guy they never met would be thinking "ok let me gtfo of here before this asshole trys to rape me or something"

I think the look your going for is the Bold, "yeah, I'm lookin at you" kinda look. like locking eyes with her & not breaking eye contact untill someone says something.

One time I go caught looking at some girls ass and instead of turning my head away which I was about to do, instead I looked at her in the eyes for 3 seconds then turned away trying to let her know that "so what if you caught me looking you are hot." I really never talked to her but my friends kept telling that she looked at me a couple of times.

You've just learned about a little concept called "validation."

Girls can be surprisingly insecure. Most of them do NOT think that every guy in the world wants to sleep with them. They're always wondering if they're hot enough. You more or less informed that girl that you thought she was hot. That got her attention.

And from what you said, you weren't embarrassed about checking her out at all. That demonstrates confidence and congruence.

She was probably hoping that you'd come talk to her.

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