When hitting on sisters, use them against each other?

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Whats is the best way to get a girl to a more private spot after a few minutes of opening and getting comfy. (how long do you guys think you should talk for).

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When the girl rejects you, what is your form of damage control?


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Finally, Getting drunk digits....what the fuck are you suppose to do with them. It's always the same story "who is this again".

hmm how do I put this......

Sisters - blood is usually thicker than water, using them against one another (they get along enough to go out together so they are friendly with one another) might not work the best. Listen there are times when I hate my brother but woe be anyone who messes with him around me. Maybe the same and just FYI

More private spot? Noise - easiest excuse. Too loud - lets move over there etc. I am hard of hearing in my right ear - 1. gives me excuse to get close and 2. easy to move someone to a quiet spot - even if that is outside.

Rejection - what damage? - she said "no" big deal. Simple "thanks it was nice to meet you..." It is and isn't personal. Personal in the sense she didn't dig you but not so personal (unless you crash and burn then take out a whole village of orphans) that she is even going to think about it in 10 minutes.

Drunk numbers -- man, myself I prefer a sober woman so my "target" (hate that term) tends to be sober when I talk to them.

What I am learning - that the A numba 1 thing is confidence and a willingness to lose - all the schtick and games and magic is simply a way to show that confidence. There are many ways to accomplish the same goal.

Trying for simple numbers (I got 4 phone numbers and a kiss and went 5 for 8 ) might be impressive to some and that is fine - me the real enjoyment is selecting that 1 or 2 very particular women and getting that all the time. Thats why I stick with sober or women who aren't full on drunk.

Good luck.

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I got to get into this dude's pelt and crawl around for a few days. Who's the gopher's ally? His friends. The harmless squirrel and the friendly rabbit.

KUDOS! Me too brotha, me too.

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Yea - problem is I live in a target deficient locale.

I am older than most here - worked bars (you think you learn alot by going out and hitting the bar? - work a bar - you see what works and doesn't night after night, for hours and make money doing it - plus it forces the ladies to come to you - they need a drink right?) so the quantity thing isn't for me - I am new to this but realized that I had a wealth of knowledge that I didn't know I did. Either watching my brother (natural pua) or my friend king of the AFC, or the bar scene - plus I am naturally observant of human behavior.

I am here to learn to get my ability down so I can get as close to perfection with maybe 3 women a month vice the spray and pray method of trying 40 sets a night - getting 9 numbers, calling 2 of them and doing a fuck and chuck. Ain't me.

I have 2 rules about women -

1. Never mess with married women. I been on the other end of that - it sucks and very good chance you might ruin a relationship between 2 people who have kids. Can't do that to a kid.

2. All women can teach you something - even the the ones with a bitch shield 3 meters thick. The all kick ass and I love spending time with them - mouth shut and ears open will teach you more than many books IMO.

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duck
I got to get into this dude's pelt and crawl around for a few days. Who's the gopher's ally? His friends. The harmless squirrel and the friendly rabbit.