i wont see this HB 9.5 i met for like 3 more weeks. we made plans to meet up when she comes to town. here's the problem...im going crazy not talking to her. i know i sound needy, thats probably cuz i am. is this wrong?? should i chat her up or just wait till i see her? and if i should chat her up...what the hell do i say?

dont get me wrong, there are plenty of fish in the sea...but i feel like my work is un-finished with her, ya know?

i need some feedback

I am taking it that you got her number...

I would call her ONCE per week and talk to her for about 15 minutes.. tops..
then be the first one to get off the phone saying that you are going somewhere...
make it a place where you are going to have a great time..

Girls hate knowing that they are going to miss out on a great/fun time...

When she don't hear from you until the next week, you can tell her that you
have been too busy to call her.. be ready for a shit test from her like, how
come you didn't call me... I was expecting you to call me...

This is her way of seeing if you are head-over-heals for her and are going to
fall victim to her shit test of saying that you were thinking about her and
shit... don't tell her that...

Just tell her, "I've been real busy with other people... I just thought of you
today when I seen a manic-an that looked like you, so I decided to call you
and see how you have been... been to any good parties there?"

If She Calls You After You Call Her The First Time...

This is a good sign, then again, she just may be bored and wanted to talk
to someone...

Tell her, "Hey babe... I'm late for a meeting with someone, call me later."
(and hang up... no good bye or nothing, just hang up)...

If she don't call you back... don't call her... just find something else to do
with your time so that you don't get the urge to call her...

Avoid calling her back that same day... wait until the day, in the afternoon
to call her. Tell her, "I'm glad that you didn't call me back... I got all tied
up yesterday.. what did you call for?"

This shows that you were in fact not thinking about her all day the other
day, and that you are calling her back just to see what she wanted, like she
was wanting something from you... (showing her neediness)...

Whatever she says (if it's not interesting)... tell her, "oh, ok. Well, let me
call you back in a few days... I am going to be gone to [some place fun]
for a few days with friends... stay good."

The Week She Is Returning...

Call her up (if she has not called you) the day BEFORE she is to return and
tell her, "So, coming back tomorrow... you are going to BE EXCITED when
you see me.."

HER: Why is that.. (or, yes I am...)
YOU: You missed me... admit it... (playful)
HER: Sure did... (playing back)
YOU: What time will be getting back into town? (serious)
HER: [time]
(if it's not too late...)
YOU: Ok. We'll go get something to eat when you get back into town,
I will not take NO for an answer... no excuses sweety...
HER: [laughs] ok...
YOU: Call me when you make it to town and I'll come get you and take
you to your place so you can get ready...
(if she says she has someone picking her up just tell her it's cool and
for her to be ready by [time of reservation to eating place] )

Then, when it is almost time for you to go to [place], call her up and find
out if she wants to meet you there or if she wants you to come pick her
up...

If she is dressed up looking all hot and shit... short skirt, showing plenty
of cleavage and shit... she is all dressed up for YOU, and is giving you a
good sign that SHE is attracted to you...

If this is not the case, then she is all dressed just to be dressed up... which
also works in your favor of being seen around town with this hot babe on
your side... Social Proof to other women..

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thanks for the advice. ill give you more info on her then ask a question:

1.) i met her in person only once (she works at the same place i do)
2.) i didnt number close her in person cuz she left when i was in the water (im a swim instructor )
3.) she added me on facebook...we chatted and it led up to her saying, "im not a lame! i swear!" then i said, "oh really? then come partying with me and we'll see" she liked the idea i got her number.
4.) i texted her about some paper she had to do (NOT AFC chat! lol it was sorta an inside joke)
5.) i never talked to her on the phone...i would have no idea where to start!

so my question is: will your advice still work?

sorry for the long response!

Why not?

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Dude, I think if you really want her, you are going to have to find a way to chill yourself out.

Real HB's will only qualify you if they believe that you can get other HB's. That means you are never impressed with all her hotness.

In your present state of mind, do you really think you could?

The problem you will run into, is that you can game your way through the texting and the phone calls. But eventually you will spend time together and when she makes a read on you and you seem like you're not the real deal, you're gonna be in a lot of trouble.

Think of it this way. Look at your post. Would it be helpful if she read it? Sooner of later she'll read it. Not here on this web site, she'll read it in you. Woman are good "readers". So change that mindset.

I like to keep things positive. SO for you bro, I got to give you your props. You landed a 9.5 awesome! Take some credit for that. If you could get this one, remind your brain that you can get others. You can be selective.

Don't lay down for her man. Don't lay down for anyone.

Use this time to test her and see if she can qualify for you.

Good luck!