Theres this girl, she is jus outta a relationship. I have her number but she hasnt really been answering. Is she playin hard to get, and what could i do to get this goin. Her friend said she needs somethin to cheer her up and that I should go for it. Would it make me seem desparate if i keep callin her? Would the movies or somthin be a good start?

She knows me, and likes my style. I have known her for about 3 months. We know each other from an overseas trip by the school. Im thinkin maybe relationship more in the long run, but gettin closer to her at the moment.

What exactly is an f close?

maybe dont call her as such. perhaps talk to her first in person if you can. use some routines, some fresh negs and closers. you want to be in control and remember, 'youre the prize', so you get her interested in you first and in no time, shell be calling you.

this is hard with such little information, things like how long have u know her ect would help

but besides all the other pua atuff people will say like act diff, or tease her or what ever.

something i believe u need to do is put yourself in her mind set for a while., she just broke up so probably wont want anything relationship wise. i would think she actually just wants to be fucked and made feel a bit specail,

but its hard to know with so little info, and what do u want, a relation ship, an f close,

but yeah i think if she just wants to fuck then u might get like a fools mate or something. and yeah wat ever the above post was is pretty standard good advice i just didnt want to repeat anything,

note. can we swear here, can some 1 let me know in a post. do i have to say f close her or can i just say fuck, doesnt matter just dont want to upset any1.


laters

This advice sounds good. One thing I'm still not sure on is how to get her out more easily. She is playin $%@#ing hard to get. Any suggestions of where a good startin place might be. Also should I take peacocking to the next level with a chain bling and asome gold or silver flat brim cap with $ on it? Apparently she is into dat stuff.

okay playa38.

im not the best on this shit, but know how to present myself.

A.you cant go dressing black, with the chains and the gangster type hat, thats if your white.

B. if shes met you before, and knows your style, it would be a bit weird if you one day roll up on her looking like snoop.

C. this is a personal anecdote, but you cant go dressing black if your not gonna act it. hence, why you have to be black.

D. so many people wear the hat and th bling, so why not go for something unique, that you feel comfortable in, coz if you look like everyone else, your not gonna stand out to her.

thats what i got to say about your peacocking but lets see what the mor eexperienced guys have to say.

P.S. sorry if i have offended anyone by using the term black.

i think you should learn some rountine bro....like palm reading, the U and C smiles, etc. that way she'll be interested and more comfortable. as far as ur dress is concerned...dont peacock if ur takin her out to the movies. the purpose of peacocking is when you want to meet NEW ppl.

PS- f-close means to have sex

I do Hip Hop dancin and listin to it so it sort of is my stuff. Eminem wears blings aswell though. Seeing as we were on a trip i couldnt take all my hiphop (or gangsta if u like) clothing. But she is into dat stuff.

Because she is playin hard to get, I need to get her out of da house, any phone convo suggestions?

call her up and be like: "where you at such and such place, cuz i saw someone that looked exactly like you!" or something like that. just dont her up and say "hey, how are you"...

K she's talkin now. But she wants me to pay for her stuff like nails etc, i know i cant get all puss-whipped but she also said if i dont pay for her its not gonna work out. Im thinkin of walkin away at dis point, what u guys think? Is she jus tryin ta use me?

haha, she sounds like a bitch.

shes trying to take contorl of you obviously, tell her shes not worth paying money for. you dont even know her. and if she says fine, its not gonna work out. just say something along the lines of. your not that good anyway. a chick like this seems to think theyre god's gift so drop them down a level and show em whos in control.

Nice. Good work guys, this mission is over. Your help has been deeply appreciated. Thnaks for your time effort and advice.

now how about goin for a new hot blonde in the mall. Any suggestions?

First off don't let a friend tell you it's a good time. she could be reading her wrong. To be a good PUA you need to KNOW for fact when it's the right time. comfort her yes but if you act to soon you're the rebound if you wait too long you're the friend. take her out for a night on the town. don't imply it's a date just tell her it's to get her out of the house and her mind off things. It'll put her fears away of you trying to date her and that you're just getting her out for a night. totally take her to date places; movies are bad (unless she's really into them) because they're too quiet. there's no way for you to spend time with her, you're just sitting next to her. use some light kino like hand on the lower back as you walk her through a door. no caressing or anything just enough to let her feel comfortable with you. try this a couple times and the go for a k- close or press your finger to your cheek and get a disarming kiss on the cheek. they love it

-Richter