First of all, congrats on actually getting somewhere with her... on the other
hand, I would put my phone on VIBRATE next time...
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the girl i was with answered it and the girl on the other line started abusing her asking for me. she hung up, they called again and started abusing me about beng a 'PLAYER' the phone was on loudspeaker so the girl i was with could hear everythin.
No speakerphone, next time, just excuse yourself so you can handle this
jealous freak on the phone, or you can just turn your phone off next time.
There is nothing funny about another girl calling you when you are trying
to get your game on with a hottie...
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the person on the phone started naming previous girls ive been seeing.
I would have covered this by telling your current girl that you have dated
a few girls in the past, you have just not been able to find the one that you
have chemistry with...
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then the girl i was with seemed blank and just offered to take me home. on the way home she was asking me questions about why im a player. she seemed to be having second thoughts about me.
Her asking why you are a player was a test to see if you really are a player,
girls will do this in a non-chalant way in order to get your guard down so
that you will open up to them, they might say shit like, "it's ok if you are,
I'm not worried about it, we can work it out..." blah blah blah...
Next time, just tell her that you are not a player... and leave it at that.
If you try to explain it in more detail, then the more you talk, the more she
hears... I AM A PLAYER, I AM TRYING TO COVER IT UP BY TALKING MY
HEAD OFF TO YOU SO YOU WILL GET TIRED OF ME TALKING BLAH BLAH...
Not true. The more you talk, the more you seem guilty.
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and now i think she has the impression of me being a player...
Just go back up to her in class and tell her, "hahaha, you know who that
girl was on the phone??? It was my cousins ex girlfriend, she thought that
my number was his new number... she wanted me to tell you that she is
so sorry for what she said and how she acted to you.. she would like to take
you and me out for dinner tomorrow night..."
Just have another friend (girl) call you and put it on speakerphone and
hour before this "dinner" and have this friend say, "I have to cancel, my
dad is coming into town tonight... rain check???"
And boom... you are out with the girl again, and now you can TURN YOUR
PHONE OFF instead of pressing the END BUTTON press and hold the POWER BUTTON...