I met this HB8 at the bar last night (Saturday) and we hit it off very well. I waved her over my way when we were dancing and she came right away. SHe was in my 5-8 foot radar so it was easy to open. We danced and i kept kino ing her the whole time. she gave me constant compliance, so aftter i smelt her and told her she smelt good i pulled her hair and went in.

After dancing for about half an hr, we went and she introduced me to her friends, then we went back to dancing couple of minutes later. We danced for about made out for about another half an hr. then i went onto the comfort stage.

I went and got us some drinks, telling her "ill get this round, you get the next(Which she did)" Then i took her hand and led her to a couch so i could talk to her and get to know her better. I talked to her for a while, kino ed her. Thumb wared her and told her i could read her palms - then just handed them back after looking at them saying ill tell her next time.

I led her back to the dancefloor where we stayed for almost the rest of the night after i introduced her to my friends, and sat down for a while. She left the bar at about 1:45 and i number closed her earlier in the night. AFter she told me she was leaving i kissed her 3 times then said by to her.

I know i did very well in this set, the problem im having is knowing whether i should txt or phone her, and when. I know you are supposed to wait a few days, but we hit it off very well. Any feedback is appreciated.

The ones who say to wait a few days are the ones who are not getting
laid...

I would call her so that she don't forget who you are...

Occupy her thoughts so she has no other choice but to remember you.

Call her and say, "Hey, it's the palm reader from last night.. ready for your fortune? I don't have a lot of time right now, lets met up tonight..."

You don't want her to go cold on you...

Sure some might say to wait a few days to call her to show that you are
a busy guy who has a life.. blah blah blah...

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yeah, this is caron by the way. Ive waited two days, thanks for the opener i think im going to use it. Because I actually read her palms and gave them back to her before telling her what i saw, told her 'next time'

thanks

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text before calling. the trick is to keep them thinking about u

I always text first...that way, if there's reply then I know it's all good. Then I'll call almost immediately call right after.

A call first might be missed. A call after making her remember who you are and what you both talked about will make her more willing to pick up....especially if she doesn't have your number saved yet.

I agree with Lep, always always at least text the day after.

Don't wait for the magic (attraction) to dissipate over a few days. Numbers are like bread....the longer you wait, the more stale it gets.

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LEPRECHAUN.. you got that dead on.
I always text the next day.
Especially if you met a girl at a club/bar.
She is most likely not expecting you to text or call her because it is a bar.
I would say to text next day with a little reminder of what you were talking about. She will appreciate that you remember.

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I always prefer to text before calling since the text messages are short and funny. It'll remind them why she gave you her number. I dont wait too long. 90% of pickups are through people's social circle. Not through cold approach. So I tend to text later on during the night or the next day. Not longer than two days. Every guy has that attitude in which they say 'Dont call a girl before two days...it makes you look like a busy guy'. PUA is the exception to the rule. You just dont want to seem desperate which is why its better to have a short text convo first IMO before calling. Even a busy guy can send a text. It doesnt take up much time.

A nice thing to do during a set is say "There are 3 things i like about you"

"1. Is that you want to do x ambition/you do x activity
2. Is that your smile reminds me of my little cousing sister and she is my favouritest people in the whole world and
3. Im not going to tell you because then you're going to stop doing it"

It drives them crazy....and girls hate not knowing. I've had so many texts from girls saying "Whats the third thing?" and they beg for it lol.

Just never ever tell them!

thanks for the advice guys

i personally txt, it seems to be the common way of communicating these days. I'll phone when I want to make plans to get together, but otherwise I just txt that way I can reply when I get a chance.

The poll shows that people txt way more than phoning too lol

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im not a mpua but...

i open w/a text. i usually get hb's #'s on fri or sat nights. i then wait till monday night to initiate contact. i like to wait till monday when there is nothing going on and i can spit my game without distraction. thats just me tho. you never know what she could be doing saturday or sunday during the day. there is alot of shit to do. and saturday night...please.

they dont forget who i am bc they have my name and # stored in their phone. i always tell them my last name too b/c im not just some asshole named @$%^&.

think about it...how many times have you given your number and forgot about it. if she tells you that she forgot you than you can chalk that up that she was drunk and didnt give a fuck when she gave you the digits and you missed your window or she just didnt want to give you the wrong number to kill your ego. either way...they dont forget! if she does bait you with that shit i just laugh and hang up or text nevermind or no reply at all. never explain yourself or where you met someone. thats lame!

Cufflink, I LOVE the 1,2,3 genius!

My initial response was just man up and call, texting is a whimpy way of acting, but on further consideration texting is defiantly the right way to go. It lets her remember you first, so there's not that akward moment where she tries to visualize who you are and you're thinking "WTF I'm a jackass" and if she replies you know she's at the phone to answer when you call a moment later. Also with a text you can phrase out exactly what you want to say and then be ready for the tone of the phone convo.