I'm not sure if this is considered mid-game, but I have a story from last night that I need some opinions on.

First off I want to tell you guys were I'm at, I have been reading David D's materials for quite some time now, maybe since I was 18 and I am now 20. I have always been the type to read and study, creative avoidance*. But I have been able to use the materials on and off, now I want to make sure I really get this part of my life handled, I have always been off and on. Just started getting into style's materials.

So basically I was at a party yesterday, or last night, couple of buddy's of mine were in a beer bong tournament, which they almost won, not sure how beer bong works, but they tied it like twice. Something outrageous like that. So I sat in the corner like my usual self, after 30 minutes I was like fuk it and I started to approach sets. Just shaking hands, warming up. Then I see a really cute girl prob a 7 on my scale, I have pretty high standards, she was the hottest girl at the party lets say that. So I tell my friend who is Mr. antisocial to start talking to people, then I tell him watch.(Count to 3 in my head) and I start to approach the girl.

Me: Hey, whats up my name is Kevin(as confidently as I could)
Her: Hey, my name is C. (Smiles)
Me: So who you with at the party
Her: Just a friend(Points)
[Don't remember too much about the opening sry guys, I will try to put everything I can]
(somehow I get into asking her what the craziest thing she has ever done)
Her: Well I don't really do crazy things, I don't really go to partyies, my mom is a cop.
Me: Come on, there has to be something, The craziest thing I've done is skydiving,(story telling skills need massive work)
(Somehow we start thumb wrestling, and debating who should ask the guy in front of us, if he is gay or not)
(Then somehow I squeeze the I only date girls who have Olympic gold-medals) It is about 6-7 minutes into the conversation
(Pointing at a guy in the room, telling her that hes perfect for her and she should go talk to him)
At this point shes basically laughing at everything I say and tells me she will be right back, she is going to get a beer.

After that I walked around to talk to more people, and she came back like in less than 2 mins to where we were talking.

My question is, should I have waited? Because its not like at a night club, it was a small party.

Because after I tried to reengage her, she was kinda non-reactive and wasn't really into it.

My biggest mistakes, and I hope you guys can help point were else I need improvement on, was

Speaking with too much energy, I think it is good to open, but you need to take it down after.
Not portraying my voice correctly, speaking slower/deeper.
Not caring about the outcome*(this is such a big one for me)
And honestly I don't really know what to do, lolz....( I guess keep amplifying the attraction)

Well later we talked for some more, and someone offered me a drink, and she totally jumped in and said "Ya, make him drink!"
Me: You are totally trying to get me drunk so you can take advantage of me
Her: Sorry your not my type, too short.
(Presses the damn button, guys I'm not to insecure about my height 5'3, but I think she took me off a little)
Me: I quickly reply, its okay I don't think you can handle me anyways (Said in the wrong tone, I think it was supposed to be more jokingly)

Also, what are some C+F ways of handling that? The your short.

I know I am not supposed to let it take me off balance,
"Aw how cute"
(Completely dis acknowledged it)
"Yeah its okay, I don't really like girls who smoke. This relationship isn't going to work out I'm going to have to break up with you" <<I think this would have been golden.

I was kinda of gaming two girls that night, the other one was really drunk and like kissed me on the cheek. But I was talking to two guys who were really cool, and both of them were gaming the two girls I was talking to and I told both of them to just go for it. I feel like it was the right thing to do, but it was like my second night out and I know I need a lot of improvement. Is there rules on that? I mean the guys were kinda gaming the girls before I was, it wasn't really a target rich environment. The drunk girl even said she maybe* wanted to hook up with me, what does that mean? But I was building one of the other guys up, saying he was like 21, has his own business and house. Pretty sure they hooked up that night.

So, my friends who lost in a epic beer bong tournament wanted to leave because the guys who won were giving them shit.

So what could I have done better?
How do I become more indifferent to the outcome?
Was I supposed to transition?
Should I have gotten her phone #?

I think you were doing great until you lost your frame after the 'short' comment. You can't let anything shake you man. Thinking back, all my short guy friends were really good with women. One in particular had really great energy, a lot like you seem to have.

Attraction isn't a steady curve going up. There'll be moments where you just know you're golden, and then there'll be moments where you'll be like, wtf am I doing wrong!? Don't worry too much about it - don't let it change what you're doing in any way whatsoever. If you push harder when the attraction is down, you'll come off very needy. It's a shit test in itself.



It's a learning experience. If you got her # (which you should've when the attraction was at one of several peaks), I'd say you'd be okay for a Day 2.

Be the rock in the storm.

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