Ok so my type has always been the quiet normal girls. Normal as in non club going. I like going to the bar, and talking to girls, but I just have an inborn hate for them as human beings However, what ive noticed is that normal girls dont know how to get hit on. When you try to go the the next stage, or whatever you ppl call it, they are just completely shocked that a guy would have any interest in them what so ever.

An example for this happened in the bookstore today. The girl who worked there was not busy and i needed a book. so she found it and we started just normal chit chat for 5 min or so about school and such, but once i got a little flirty, she just looked like a deer in the headlights. This has happened with classmates too. It seems like girls need to prepare to be hit on just as much as some of us need to prepare to hit on them?

what do you guys think.

any suggestions for breaking through the defense of girls that dont get hit on alot and have no idea how to react?

i think your game needs to flow a little more naturally. dont just jump from non threatening conversation to flirting. you have to make a smooth transition. try push/pull and some light negging, it should help the transition. PS never go direct when you have already gone indirect. imo its kind of like you surrender when you do that. keep the dance going and number close that way. hope this helps

sorry to be ignorant, but can you briefly explain push pull

If you think that there are normal girls, you dont know women deeply enough.

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alright basically wat push pull is while youre in a set you would neg your target(push) then give her a small compliment (pull). doing this will make you look not too needy and still get the attraction up. thats what it is in a nutshell but try to google it

I think that you need to rethink your gaming. Gaming in a club and gaming in a bookstore is very different, you just need to use a different approach than when you are clubbin!

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If you prefer more average women, which is great too each his own y'know, you really don't have to follow some of these methods to the letter, you can use direct openers because odds are she isn't used to hearing them as much as a beautiful woman would be.

If however that is for truly average women. if the she is still very traditionally attractive then you do need to follow the methods because she will have been hit on alot in her life, even if she deosn't go to clubs.

It really depends on the kind a girl your target is and then you calibrate from there.

hope this helps a bit

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