So this is always a big thing for me. When calling you have to do the mini pick up. Start off on the phone with a ftc, then an interesting just happened now story, be c+f, teasing her a lot. Then when youre about to hang up you bring up that you're gonna do so and so and you want her to join you. I suck pretty bad at it, haha. Text, it's a bit harder to open, but once you do just a few friendly text then suggest a Day2. Im not mpua, ha not even a pua. But what is the consensus in terms of medium to set up a Day2.

setting up day 2 is easy, as long as you build enough attraction in day 1, you can just make a lame excuse and she will still come out. just dont act so desperate when you're talking and its all good!

If you're having trouble thinking of an opener texting here is a good thread..


list-of-text-messages-game-vt21175.html

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And dont ask her.....tell her

Example of day 2 i just got

text
me- hey hb8 just saw this girl with her hair like yours and it made me think of you, i was thinking i would cook for us tomorrow night, you can help by doing the dishes.

hb8- would love to and i can handle a few dishes

work on the assumption that it is happening, its a forgone conclusion, lead her

so it doesnt show lack of confidence to set up a day2 over text? I've talked to her only 1 minute on the phone since i met her. But when we met there were about 3 hours of really good comfort building. And there has been a lot of texting. i was gonna attempt a day2 set up over text but just completely backed out of doing it. Haha, i texted her, "are you busy today?" she replied "No, not really, why?" and i completely pussied out and told her a i needed a gift idea for my sister's birthday" haha, so afc. And i know this girl is interested, im just being a pussy. I guess i just want to know if calling shows me as more confident and conveys me as a guy that is not afraid and goes for what he wants.

I think you've put a little to much thought into it.....just type something, reread it and poof....because at this point it should be an easy hook.

Try the usual I am going to be here, you don't want to miss out on the fun....swing on by.

I once had a girl hold me up because her girls demanded she go out with them for a girls night out...so I text'd her the next day to come chill and she'd have to do it because for me it's "two strikes and your out....I know, I'm just evil like that. Hey, even men have standards." After that she was practically beggin me to for us to hang out again...

..just make sure the attraction is there and above all else, remember that you, my friend, are the prize.

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