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Anyways to the core of the problem, I am pretty sure I would rather be hooking up with different girls each week rather than having a relationship.
If you are thinking this, then you want to see if you can still pull HB's.
Sometimes people do break up many times in their life.. it's usual, but
not typical. Some find their soul mate in the first person they decide to
date and then get married.
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But the girl is kinda not sure in herself and would probably go nuts not to mention I would feel bad.
Just tell her that you want to take a break. Tell her that you two can remain
friends, but you just need to do some soul searching and get yourself back
in shape so that you feel better about yourself.
Tell her, "It's not you, it's me.. you are great, I just want to better myself
in order to be a better person for you and for myself."
Seeing how she has low self-esteem, no matter what guy she gets with, or
what you tell her, she will be heart-broken, but she will get over it...
She has gotten over it before in her past I am sure of this, so she knows
how to get over it again...
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Also to the secondary part of the problem loads of guys want to go sarging but I am a shadow of my former self (limiting belief I know but its how I feel), I have also become sloppy in my appearance. In true fight club style women were the reason I shaved, cut my finger nails, kept my hair under control and kept a decent weight (I must have put on a good half a stone and lost all muscle).
Go out sarging. Clean yourself up after you "take a break" with this girl
that you are with.
You might decide that you don't want to hook up with other girls, and you
might in fact actually want to be with this girl that you are with now.
You can never be satisfied unless you take the time to work out your own
problems and see if you are happier doing something new and from the
past, or remaining in a stable relationship.
Get out there and find out is the only thing that you can do to see what
you really want to do...
CHAT
