Lol I need a response to this for facebook ASAP.

PUA: Hey that chick in your profile pic is pretty cute you should deff hook us up. (she is the only person in her profile picture.)

HB9: ummm how bout no!

Common guys I need a quick reply.

"How about? Let me think about that.... Nah, I don't really like 'no'. "

End paragraph, change subject to something neutral.

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Um shes putting up a big bitch shield, that or i haven't built enough comfort.

I took charlies advice and said the following

How about? Let me think about that.... Nah, I don't really like 'no'.

I didn't take you for the girl that liked football, thats pretty cool minus the fact you go to lloyd haha.

and she replied:

ummm if u r tryin to flirt u r suxing at it.... i don even know u

Lol having luck with ever girl except for her..kind of a challenge. And tips on what to say would be appreciated thanks.

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Personally I dislike being so direct with the opener, as it doesn't give you as much room to maneuver. If you hadn't been so direct, you would be able to accuse her of trying to flirt with you for bringing it up. And no, I don't think you have any comfort yet being only 2 messages in.

She's still replying thought which I always take as an IOI. You might drop another neg which I think would be very risky. Perhaps you can reframe and get her to qualify herself? If she does reply and qualifies herself I would start trying to build comfort.

My ideas..

Back off a bit and go more indirect..
"It must be hard to get to know people when everyone flirts with you. So lets get real (and ask a qualifying question)"

or

Keep going direct...
"Yes, I'm flirting with you, but that doesn't mean I'm sold yet. What I want to know is.... (and ask a qualifying question)"

Yes. You were very direct with your opener, that is the consequence of your actions. Stay in your frame.
I'd go with that one. (Nice response, btw.)

The other one isn't so bad, but I'd much rather see OP stick to his guns and not reframe.

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I don't really do the internet thing but I will say that it's the internet she has 100's of guys sending her the same sort of bullshit you should never ever do a direct opener online unless you yourself are gorgeous as well. Ask Jsmooth for some tips he is the internet dating GURU of the world.

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As the guys above have said, stay in the same frame that you opened with, keep being direct, keep that frame strong and u'll win her over.

I've added a little extra to jkenpo's response;

"Yes, I'm flirting with you, but that doesn't mean I'm sold yet and I'm not quite convinced either if you can handle me anyway! What I want to know is.... (and ask a qualifying question)"

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Eh I just looked at her profile and realized shes kind of on the young side but I still sent this

"Yes, I'm flirting with you, but that doesn't mean I'm sold yet. What I want to know is if your a fun girl to be around"

if shes still a bitch i'm not going to bother with it talking to other chicks anyway haha thanks for all the great advice though guys.

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lol wow she is a bitch haha i just got this message back

HB (hot...bitch in this case lol): nope im not at all fun to be around so i ges thats a bye

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"I call bullshit.

You must really like me to keep pursuing me like this.

You're gonna have to start putting forth some effort or I'm going to lose interest."

If she wasn't interested, she wouldn't be replying. Make the ho say no! (In Internet Game, that means Ignore)

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I agree with Charlie, and like his response. Even if you aren't really interested anymore it's still worth trying and you don't really lose anything by doing so. Push the interaction and if nothing else view it as a learning opportunity.

I agree with Charlie, and like his response. Even if you aren't really interested anymore it's still worth trying and you don't really lose anything by doing so. Push the interaction and if nothing else view it as a learning opportunity.

Ya i took charlie's advice and messaged her..just for the hell of it haha. Ill let you know what she says if anything.

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Alright well she responded and I figured out why she had such a huge bitch shield. Apparently her cousin knows me and he told her I was a player and was just going to use her for sex etc..partied alot etc. Hopefully I cleared some things up and we'll see what goes on I think she might warm up to me yet.

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