Okay. I've got a challenge. I've never failed to make a girl be attracted to me if I've wanted her to be, and I don't hit on girls that don't interest me, which gives me the risk of one-itis.

It is a high chance one-itis is possible on this one, you see. Which is a surprise to me, perhaps a valuable lesson, but anyways.

Met her five days ago. We escalated from her saying "bye" to saying "hug" when leaving, to saying "peck and hug" (swedish expression). She also told me she found me amazing, whatever, but the fact is - i can't get into her head. No question she is beyond mensa level in intelligence, might explain that.

I'm rolling down failure lane, to be exact. I have no idea why I simply can't read her, but all attempts of kino escalature and etcetra tends to end with failure. If I don't know what's going on in her mind, I don't know how to proceed, and my fear of being rejected turns up, because I've got these feelings she's amazing w/e i'm not used to having, which another PUA also agreed with me she was, and that I simply must not fail with her.

It all happens via msn by the way, and I have not met her. Msn is uncommon area for me, also, but my game technique here has been being witty and say things with so much detail they seem real.
So. Here's my last failure.
She: Gotta go, wish me luck! peck and hug thingy.
Me: Why not say kiss?
She: I have a throat infection, so I'm afraid not.
Me: Suit yourself
(MSN smiley is much more playful than the forums <>
What should I do?
the fuck ten other girls code, that aint much for me, because i know there are people who are special and people who aren't - i've been with so boring women, beautiful, hot? desired by all? sure. But dead boring. I'm sick of those girls, and I will not consider any more of them.
Hilfe ^^

You need to build comfort and rapport, attraction is only a feeling and your not going to achieve this on MSN. You need to open yourself to give her the ability and chance to open herself up to you.

U'll just need to turn the heat up and meet her!

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dude i feel for you. msn pick-ups are easy as long as:
a)you are sure wot these girls look like in real life and not just what thier display picturee appears tto be

b) virtual Kino
NOT webcam playfulness unless your aim changed to a one night pleasure quest.
and most important c) that your aim is to meet this girl in real life
dont set yourself up for a girl who live so far awa its unrealistic.

just keep virtual Kino up i.e the hug/kiss playfulness
keep track of what intrests and hang out spots she has, even if yu ask blantently where she hangs out or a question such as So what you doing this weekend? even the simple boring questions can give yu this knowledge.

then simply say in your own words how you think you should both meet up sometime and suggest a hang out spot of hers
e.g hey, you know that coffee shop on 5th. (you know she goes to this place), wana meet up for a coffee thier tomoro evening.
then virtual Kino becomes reality and you are well on your way to getting into this realtionship you so gleefully wish for.

Isn't that a contradiction in terms?

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