Ok so I met a this girl a beautiful hb 9-10 at the bar (dont like rating women but shes a knock out) and at the time she seemed into me....she even took me back to her friends place to hang out....well the other night I txt her and told her to come out with her friend which she did but she was very shy the whole time and didnt really give me any IOI's....the weird thing was once agian at the end of the night she told me to come hang out at her friend house. So while we wer at her house she told me to spend the night and just sleep over since it was so late but I said no I had to be up early and tired to play a little push pull to see if I could get any thing out of her....told her that she now owes me 2 drinks and a date and she agrees but gives me no IOI's what so ever! so I then take my braclet off and put it on her and tell her to keep care of it for a while.

The next day I txt her asking her If she enjoys stealing jewlery....she just doesnt msg me until now say "you caught me".

She seems very shy....not the kind of girl with her nose up in the air so I dont think she is trying to be a bitch and perhaps she is not interested? What can I do or have I done wrong?

P.s I actually couldnt spend the night when she wanted me to....I had a morning class that day hence the "you can keep this for me" so she didnt think I wasnt rewarding her.

maybe you're looking for the wrong IOIs...

I heard a few IOIs in that story yet you still maintain "no IOIs"

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Yes but somtimes you can just feel somone is into you....and she didnt seem it other then telling me to come over.....she also has not talked to me or txt me which I always get a txt or call with in the first couple days but nt with this one....She does not give enouph IOI's to make me feel like she gives two fucks lol

So I guess how do I make her give two fucks? lol what do I do to build her attraction when nothing is working?

go back to the drawing board.

maybe you're just to 'in' this situation. Step back and think as if she was any other girl at her stage of 'attraction'. How would you game them?

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hmm well im trying....I might just ignore her for a while to see what she does....mabey she will contact me.

i think introducing another girl in this situation for a jealousy plotline would b good, so jus pik up another girl, you three hang out, see wut happenes , she likes u/ she doesnt like u, win/win

mmmm Iduno man I went out with her and her friend that other night and was talking to other women and she didnt seem to care....I had one girl jump up and wrap her legs around me and she didnt seem to care lol shes shy so im guessing that might have even turned her off or intimidated her....perhaps I am not being clear enouph?? I mean I thought I gave enouph hints that I was into her but perhaps Im not being clear enouph....I just feel like a women of her caliber are turned off when a guy comes out and tells them there beautiful, and that they want to go on a date because they hear it all the time....but mabey I should just tell her I am taking her our next week and ask her when she is free? I cant get this girl to open up! lol

Iduno I feel like I need to build alot more attraction before asking her to hang out one on one....I have never been turned down by a women before but I also have never been in this situation....building attraction comes easy to me and I can usualy get a date after talking to a girl for a day or two.

So you didn't know this girl before hand? Essentially by inviting you to her friends house, she's just given you an IOI.

Asking you to stay the night, IOI. By refusing, depending on the way you did it, you either DHV'd or DLV'd. Based on how you came across.

DLV: "oh no i have this thing, it'd a big deal, panic"
DHV: "Haha i'd love to, but unfortunately i'm a busy man "

You say she doesn't seem interested. Sounds to me like she was initially, and now she's either cooled off, or she's just shy, and you need to build comfort.

I would personally just go in DHV constantly through personality traits & frame, whilst mixing in active DHV's in the form of stories. Make sure you build alot of initial attraction, because you seem stuck between attraction & comfort (if your a mystery model man).

After that, continue DHV'ing and build comfort and then kino escalate & close normally.

Hope that's helped.

Wolfus

Hmm good advice. I think that is my problem....Im sure she can seem me as a possible mate but she is not head over heals yet so she just see's me as another good looking guy who she could possibly go out with....what I need to do is make her want it.

Exactly. You've got it. Pump that attraction. Flick those switches!

Game on!

some girls r hard to read dude. If shes in viting you over and telling you to spend the night PULL THE TRIGGER! attraction is done and she comfortable enough to have you spend the night so kiss close then try to seduce. Good move with the bracelet btw....texts will keep u in her mind so a few random texts then an "about my dinner..."