Seriously, I've heard so much stupid sh!t people were made to do in order to get over AA.
Take their shirt off, run around to get over "approach anxiety" or another one which is go tell an old lady how sexy and voluptous she looked.
--All this just seemed retarded as hell.

Look at the above, do you seriously think all that stuff sounds stupid? I certainly do and so should you. And it's sad that some of you guys actually follow that. I'm NOT DENYING that it doesn't work , but all I'm saying is there are much easier ways to get over AA.

This is, by the way, coming from a guy that dated part-time teen models, young socialites etc etc yet still had massive AA.

So now you guys are asking what is my solution of getting over AA, as simple as it sounds, it works:

Ask people functional questions before you start approaching girls (WARM-UP)


What is a functional question?
e.g. "What is the time", "Do you know where the closest seafood restaurant is?", "Do you know where the bathroom is"

For more night-time warmup questions: "Do you happen to know where Mr.Reily, the promoter, is?", "Do you know where the bar is?", "Do you know where the VIP room/toilet is?"

And that's it! If you ask a bunch of functional questions, it should get you into a talking state of which you can open with an HB a functional opener. Don't worry about the results yet if you cannot even get over AA. Besides, you can always reboot after your functional opener so it works out perfectly.

This has been proven to work so you guys can stop your weird gimmicky self-psychological therapy, crazy song chanting or any other retarded shit you guys do to get over AA

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Good advice here, i have huge AA and im slowly but surely opening up conversations rather than waiting for people to talk to me.

Asking people about simple shit really helps.

They're not to get over approach anxiety... but to get over social anxiety.
Warm-up sets... that's the classic solution. You don't have to approach girls, you can do it with guys (or ugly girls). It puts you in a talkative mode and gives you momentum to talk to girls. It's enough to get rid of basic approach anxiety for most people... but not everyone.
Worse cases may require other methods.

Keep your mind open, and don't dismiss tricks that have been proven to work consistently and efficiently just because YOU don't need it.

Everyone should try warm-up sets at first. If it's enough... great. If not, look for other stuff.

You should be more careful when voicing your opinion

Kr, since this is your first post, I'll spare you.

May I say that I'm not in the mood to be in an argument or to be "taught", especially from somebody with no credentials, where as I'm trying to offer advice because I've spent 2 years experimenting with lots of stupid tricks as well as hearing from many wingmen about the type of sh!t they went through to get over AA.
I actually research anxiety as part of a college research project I do in junction with a few of the top Psychology professors in the world. Part of what I've found is that anxiety share common cognition roots. Unless you know more than I would in psychology, then don't come and make yourself look stupid.

In addition, a lot of times the people make students do things for AA, NOT social anxiety (which essentially has the same roots as both escalation and AA too).
The so-called classic solution is to hit on everyone.

My solution just means DONT hit on people, just go functional, which is what a lot of top gurus fail to address.
Never claimed they dont work as I specifically said in the beginning. Please learn how to read.

All I just said was that people dont need to resort to such stupid tricks.
No they dont.

Clearly, YOU support people using all these strange gimmicks and methods. It does suck that when people outright tell you that you dont have to resort to such techniques, you would feel bad. But that's okay, save the weird gimmicks for yourself and let the newbies learn how to be NORMAL.

If you are going to get into an argument with me why these stupid AA tricks work, then dont bother cause I'm not going to get embroiled in such petty argument.


Anyways, all constructive feedback are welcome.

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Guys, I also forgot to mention that if you do the functional questions with a number of hot girls in quick succession, it will pump up your state much quicker.

The reason why you'd rather be focusing on HBs as compared to others because a lot of people have no problem talking to guys or old women. It's the HBs that they seem to be afraid of, so we're out to solve that by asking for the time, directions etc etc.

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Hehehe... I just thought of something.



"Hey what time is it?"

"Oh, um, it's..." as she grabs her phone to look.

"That's okay, I really came up here to tell you *insert direct opener*."



I don't like beating around the bush too much because they'll think you have a genuine need (like the time), and being too indirect is creepy. Anyway, as soon as you ask what time it is, you're in set, and the time for AA is gone.

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I agree/disagree with this post. I don't really know what to say about it because of that so I will instead offer another way to help yourself get over AA that isn't so stupid. Force yourself into some type of performance art. It doesn't have to be complicated. By street magic for dummies or learn to play the guitar/piano. Putting on a performance for somebody really helps you get over the nervousness that is associated with AA. and SA. In doing this type of thing (I do magic and play piano both) you develope a confidence of steel and when you have confidence AA melts away.

Thats the best thing I can add to this interesting post.

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