Hey i have a peculiar problem. What kind of kino a woman accepts is very different from girl to girl.
There's this girl that asked me to take her out on a date, she's my dancepartner and therefore very physical but what's weird is this. I told her to kiss me but she only kissed my cheek.

There's some issue this girl has with her neck, it's as if her it is ultra sensitive or something. I passed her in the hallway today and she wanted to give me a hug, so i gave her a real big hug, but my cheek touched her neck and all of a sudden she let out a shriek! she pulled away and looked at me as if i had just violated her. What just happened???

Before i was very reluctant to kino escalate, or even use direct game. But then i figured that some direct game couldn't hurt but i think i'll go back to my old assumption that you don't go direct or IOI.

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It may be a medical condition or an injury. I wouldn't ask her about it yet, but if it is really bothering you then ask her. But do it in a manner that allows her to not answer if she doesn't want to and does not feel the presure to answer the question. As she may not be comfortable with you yet to tell you.