I've been building confidence these past few weeks just randomly talking to girls in my school and it was going well, but there's this one girl who I have a crush on. She sat next to me in our business lesson with one of her friends I know I should of opened straight away, but I didn't. I waited until her friend was gone and then hit her with the Jesus opener. I didn't say it with enough confidence and now she thinks I'm a freak. She went and told other girls what I said and that last half an hour of my lesson I was getting scolding loooks and awkward questions. It's a week later and I am still unsure what to do. Should I confidently go up to her and her friends and act like nothing's happened? Or should i just think to myself, fuck it there's loads more better looking girls than her, why waste my time?

Any comments would be helpful.

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Better to die on your feet, than live on your knees

Hay dude,

Firstly you never 'fucked up' no such thing its a void. If you get blown out then you simply reset and start again. Also if you do fail on an approach or whatever its never a full fail, EVERY interaction you have throughout your life even sub-consciously your body records pros and cons (if you that way inclined) and then for your next interaction your that much better from the experience; hence its win- win! As for sticking with this girl.....I wouldnt, for a start she cant have a very nice personality if she went around telling everyone about how you 'fucked up' and also oneitus is a horrible, horrible thing, run whilst you can; im speaking from experience here!

Hope that helps dude,

Spark.

Thanks, that put a new light on the problem and it's helped me see it better.

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Better to die on your feet, than live on your knees

Ive also tried that Jesus opener and they just think im a creep. I even had one chic go on a rant about how i was talking about the 'King of Kings' and the almighty and all that crap. It really doesn't work here in Scotland at all.

Lol. EJECT! EJECT!