well, i've been observing my two friends who are naturals, like they have the ability to like make people come to them. As in you can talk to them and there will never be an awkward moment, they are the alphas as well but i dont care about that. I want to know how they can make people feel comfotarble around them, i've been observing and they never talk they usually let someone else start the convo as it's easier said than done, i can pickup girls at this poin (not amazing but average) but i still can't have the natural ability to make someone come up to me or the feeling of ease when people are around me.. i want to know your opinions

Its all body language and voice tone.

What makes people come up and talk to them? Body language and voce tone...

Why do people feel so comfortable around them? Same thing.

How can you do this? Well I'm assuming you want natural game so heres the mindsets that create such techniques:

step 1 - Relax. And I mean RELAX. Be as relaxed and comfy as you can.

Step 2 - Realize it doesn't matter what you say, just assume that its going to be 100% accepted.

Step 3 - Be genuine.

Step 4 - Be 100% non judgemental.

Simple yes?

If you want specifics, just ask....

If you want to get approached here's what works for me;
Make sure you're having fun and people can tell
Peacock (I have a more covert style of peacocking, like interesting stuff written on a shirt or something that is interesting or funny but not flashy)
Have a social proof (a group or friends or some one on the phone or something)
Know deep down that you are the shit.
That's what's worked for me, I usually don't intentionally peacock, or social proof (unless I'm gaming someone), but those are the circumstances where I've usually been approached.

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