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PostPosted: Thu Aug 09, 2007 7:26 pm 
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<center>"Analysis-paralysis will help you avoid failure.
However, you will also avoid success as well."
- LL Cool J</center>


I have been a PUA for a while now and I have read tons of books and watched videos and did all that other newbie stuff, but the best skills I obtained were out in the feild. There are not enough books videos, or posts that you could read that can equal actual fieldwork. When I say actual field work I’m talking about going out there talking to as many girls/ guys as possible and getting blown out of the water 9 out of 10 times until you find the rhythm, then its all good. I'm a very avid gym goer and frequent bodybuilding.com. I found this article and I thought it was perfect to post on the PUA site. Please read through this, and think before you ask questions that could be answered in the field.

ARE YOU A RESEARCH PUA, OR A ACTION PUA?

While I'm a strong believer in the importance of taking massive action, massive action without adequate research will lead to disastrous consequences. However, choosing to stay in never-ending research mode will get you nowhere...fast.
Yes, research and analysis are required for any successful plan, but no amount of research will make up for a lack of action: at some point, you have to execute your plan and simply learn as you go.
Repeat: even massive action won't make up for inadequate research and planning - a hard lesson I've learned well, as discussed in previous newsletters. You have to act with purpose and a clear idea of what you're doing and where you're going - acting for the sake of acting just won't cut it.
Research Addicts
1. Excitement Of Anticipation:

First, lets discuss research addicts. Why do some people resist leaving research mode? For one, anticipation can be more exciting than taking action. In fact, anticipation can be more exciting than achieving goals, since achieving goals can be anti-climactic.
Moreover, it's human nature to always want more and never be satisfied; therefore, no matter how many goals you achieve, there'll always be another you think you need to achieve. We can avoid all this by staying in research mode-the ultimate state of anticipation.
The more research you do, the more excitement you'll feel in anticipation of (eventually) taking action with all your acquired knowledge. The problem is, you've been in research mode for five years and have yet to put any of that knowledge into action. Oh well, there's always next year.

2. A Difficult Road Ahead:

Second, the more research you do, the more you realize you've a difficult road ahead when you finally do take action. It starts becoming clear that road may be turbulent and filled with-unpleasant-surprises.
Rather than waking up and facing the world, it's easier going back to sleep and continuing to dream. I call this active procrastination: it's procrastination disguised as something useful, which is the most dangerous form of all.
Each time you choose not to act, instead staying in research mode, it becomes that much harder to take action. Yet, you somehow think if you knew just a little bit more, you'd finally be ready to take action.

<center>Newsflash: Confidence Comes From Taking Action,
Not From Sitting On The Sidelines Forever (your computer).</center>


3. Research Mode Is Safe:

Third, research mode is safe: as long as you're in research mode you can avoid taking action... and possibly failing. You'll avoid failure and the accompanying ridicule if you avoid taking action. I don't think anyone is afraid of failing per se; no, it's ridicule people fear so much.
Just about everyone has bombed-out at something-or-other in front of people at some point and the resultant ridicule has been deeply buried in our subconscious minds, resurrecting itself whenever we go after a goal.

Action Addicts
Now, lets talk about the action addicts. Action addicts are people who can't stand research-they thrive on constant motion. They don't even care if they get good results, since the stimulus of action is their juice. As long as they're in action, they're able to stay in distraction mode.
Action addicts are impulsive people who rarely think things through: they get an idea, act on it right away-and hope it works out. Action addicts are those strength trainees who always want to do more. When they don't get results from training six times a week, they'll start training twice a day.
They always assume that more action and work is the answer; the idea of doing less and getting more is ludicrous to them Action addicts often drink several cups of coffee each day, since you need to get energy somewhere when you're only sleeping four hours a night.
What's The Appeal Of Being An Action Addict?
1. One, you don't have time to worry about failure if you're too busy acting. You're too busy taking acting to consider failing-even if you've nothing to show for your action.
Just because you're taking action doesn't mean your desired results will follow; however, you won't care about that if the action is enough juice for you-who cares about goals!
2. Two, taking action gives one a rush: it's intoxicating and feels like you're in control and moving forward. This feeling is mostly illusory; however, when you're too busy taking action you'll never pause long enough to even notice.

Reference: http://www.bodybuilding.com/fun/mahler102.htm


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thanks for the bump. i think this is a great read for all, not only newbie's


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That was awesome, very inspiring. Great work to captainamerica. This will inspire me to become a lot mor active and less research.

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That was awesome, very inspiring. Great work to captainamerica. This will inspire me to become a lot mor active and less research.
Very welcome

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