Last night I went sarging with trickz. I don't have much field experience, and it showed. Trickz is impressive though. What happened simply was after my opener I panicked and went into the 'whats your name' or where are you from' bullshit most AFC showed. Firstly I opened a Irish girl HB6 (not suprising as I live in Ireland) and didnt get a great response. My mind panicked. The opener I used was 'would you rather be rich famous or goodlooking'. Then I tried something new such as 'whats the weirdest thing that has happened to you in your life?' From this I tried a DHV story about how few weeks ago I gave birth to a baby in the hospital I work. They were foreign and on hols so doubt they cared.

Later in the club after opening a few sets badly due to my panic attack of not knowing what to say after my opener I opened two German girls. HB8 and HB 7.5. They liked Trickz but didnt like me so kinda lost interest in them. We talked, danced and had fun in general. Now despite not having number closed (Trickz did) I was happy to have just opened.

I realise now a major mistake of mine. I opened and actually listened to there answers when really I should have been listing negs up to hit them with. Therefore I lost my thoughts and acted AFC.

The question I have is tho can you say two completely different openers in a row before negging or is it best to keep the second similiar to your initial opener.

Any advice on how to not lose your thoughts while interacting initially?

Any advice is very welcome,
Tav

My advice is to chillllll out!! you are thinking way to linear..

Ofcours you can open her, neg her, neg her and neg her again, say something funny, fluff, kino etc.., but i think you are missing the whole point of being relaxed.. they feel you are tensed and that you're running out of stuff and from that moment their tests will be more intense 'til you leave her alone. Those steps your a taking are not bad, but without good bodylanguage and a positive, dominant attitude, these things won't work as they should be..

Try to get into that zone that everything flows.. warm up in clubs, don't care about the outcome.. picking up girls is all about chemistry and you need to create that chemistry between you and that girl. When you have it, things will flow and sex is a natural result and not a big deal..

i guess my tip to you is go out a lot more, talk to a lot more girls, you are getting stuck because you are not relaxed around them.. it'll come, don't worry.. in the end you'll be the king of the club and all girls will feel that..

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Thanks Frattz. I think its the openers. Next day gonna stick to same opener and move on from there. Cheers for your opinion tho.