I have an inner game issue that is keeping me from taking right action, time and time again. Before i go out somewhere with no pressure, i'll be fine. But each time i get some social pressure where i'm actually required to give something of myself, i shut down. It's like i'm getting drowsy, sleepy. There's some kind of physical reaction that seems to shut me down, just enough so that i don't approach.

Here is where having routines, peacock items and games really help me out, but i'm not a big fan of those so i don't know too many. I'm pushing for natural game.

Anybody have the same experience? where you feel like you're too drowsy, or maybe you're constantly waiting and postponing the right moment to approach.

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If you don't respect yourself, nobody else will either

Sounds to me like APPROACH ANXIETY my friend.

You get scared because you don't know what to say to this girl.

You don't know if she is going to be a total bitch and call you on your shit
or what... (some are bitches) just tell her, "you don't get out much do you?"
(and walk away).

It is fear that gives a lot of guys Approach Anxiety...

I have a thread that explains this FEAR concept, take a look at it...

--> overcoming-fear-vt38691.html <--

Michael Jordan said:
"I can accept failure, everyone fails at something.
But I cant accept not trying."

Think of that and just take a DEEP BREATHE and go for it.

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Approach Anxiety also negatively affects your social life. If you're at a
party, do you usually only stick to your friends because you didn't want
to get rejected in front of everyone else.

You feel like everyone is watching your every move and if you screw up,
they will laugh and say shit behind your back.

No-one actually cares about you, me or the other guy. People don't really
give much thought to you and what you're doing, the majority of their
thoughts are spent worrying about themselves.

If you walk over and approach a chick, most people will think that you
know her. The others will simply look at you thinking, "Wow, he's
confident… I wish I could be like him."

This is pretty eye-opening, but it will not cure your approach anxiety.

What will?

Approaching chicks is only a part of it when you are wanting to overcome
approach anxiety.

You also need to:

- Have true confidence.
- Start & sustain convos that are fun & interesting.
- Spark strong attraction and to get her interested quickly.
- Move to getting the phone number, the kissing, the dates & the sex.

Without these things, you will NEVER get good results with chicks.
Most of your approaches will not go good, which will make your approach
anxiety worse... or at least stay where it is.

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