Clearly you've read The Power of Now. I agree with everything you're saying. I love your approach to approaching women; why make a big deal out of what might happen when it hasn't happened yet? Putting the number as the ultimate goal changes your approach, but if you think about creating an interesting, funny moment, the number oftentimes produces itself without your trying.

For mystery_guy, I think he is more comfortable in direct game. You have to chat them up a little bit before you go for the kill. It seems like you do a lot of day game, so I think you should take a look at this video of Gambler giving a great blue print for perfect day game:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S-5oTl9xVyc

You have beaming confidence with women, so that works in your advantage here because all you need to do is approach by being non-direct in your intentions. Work your way up to being direct by making a connection with her. Build kino with a high five, which also escalates attraction by creating humor. Little shit goes so far.

You are direct and its great, but how about 2 things that might help you to succeed:
1. be direct, but like someone said build some comfort, have some random fun before the kill
2. Be direct but not direct to sex/orgasm. That may scare some girls. Be direct about something nice like going for coffe tomorrow instead of going for orgasm tomorrow



By the way keep us posted, its my favorite field report thread

Thank you guys for the tips.The Mode One approaches i did only for fun to see reactions,but not expected to see a result.Maye this is my problem,i don;t build enough comfort,so i have a question.After opener,it's okay to ask the girl about she,about passions,travel etc?And after rapport to close,right?.By the way,the mode one approaches helped me to have a very very big confidence in approaches.Trust me,after you open like that you can say almost anything to a girl with maximum confidence.

Yeah, it's cool to ask the girl about herself but you don't want to say "Tell me about yourself." It's too vague, and you want to always know where the conversation is going so that you remain in control. Ask her about herself but only in the context of the situation. Once she mentions something she likes to do, tell her that you guys should do that together sometime, but give her a reason for it.

Don't just be like, "Oh, you like pants? Me too, give me your number." Instead, be like, "Oh, you like pants? Well here's the thing - I am in desperate need of a new pair, and none of my friends have any sense of style. If you're out shopping later this week you should come help me pick out a new pair." When she says, "Yeah, okay" take that as the affirmative that she's going to give you her number. That's when you hand her your phone and say, "Put your number in here and I'll text you later on this week".

I think your primary issue is that your approach is too direct. I wouldn't really call what you do "game" because there's no method to it and there's no playing involved, it's just you approaching women, asking them to tell you about themselves, and then asking for a number. Be more deliberate, and try to create a personal connection.

Hope this helps! Stay confident!

PS You've actually inspired me to start my own field report. I'll be putting it up sometime this week.

I made today an approach but i don't know,i fucked up.Let's see what is about:

ME at a table and i saw 3 girls(G1-target,G2-UG,G3-fat chickUG) at another table who had fun.I approach them of course

ME:Hello girls!
Chicks:Hello!
ME:I have a big problem!Did you see at that table that girl?
G1:yes!
ME:I like her,but i don't know how to approach!(smile)(in this time i take a chair and sit on their table)
G1 talks to the G2,G3:Let's help the boy .Ask her something like "Where is street x?"
ME:hmm i don't know but from here how to take date the girl? )
G1:ask her for street x and after ask her if she can show you were actually street is and after ask her to date at a cofee.
ME:you know i'm direct with girls,i don't like to hide my desires .
G1:i don't think that will work.Depends what chick it is.
G2:or you will be hit with the handbag
All of us :(laughs)
After that i made rapport with the girls especially with G1,that chick ask me for name,what i study etc.But at a moment,i don't know very good what we spoke about because all i do it's very spontaneously,G1 shows G3 and says :"We are lesbians"
ME:(laughs)
G1:i talk serios
ME:I like lesbians.
G1:I'm not bisexual,i'm only lesbian.
ME::D.You know a man like to see lesbians.
G1:Yes i know.First time i was heterosexual but after i met her bla bla bla
ME:(starting to avoid this topic,i made more rapport,i find where g1 live,music we like etc).
All of us laughs,all seems pretty okay.After 10 minutes G1 said to me:
G1:sorry,we must go ,i must be home right now.
ME:Let's hang out at a coffee when i'm free.
G1:i said to you i'm a lesbian
ME: :O and big smile.You know you should try again with a boy
G1:my girlfriend is very jealous and is near you
ME:oh my god,don't hit me )
After some cocky and funny about that i said her again:
ME:So give me your phone number to meet you at a coffee.
G1:Really i'm a lesbian,we don;t kiss here because real lesbians doesn't want the other people to know that.
ME:okay:) (fuck i've give up but the chicks almost leave)
G1:We had a great time with you and maybe you know,maybe we will meet in the future,the destiny.
ME:I don't trust in destiny
G1:We trust in that and i think we will meet again sometimes.
ME:okay bye bye:)
CHIKS:bye bye

no more updates?

i love your posts mystery guy, they are so entertaining! I am sure you realise as someone mentioned before that you come across as a creep to the girls. Look man, you obvisoulsy are quite confident and don't suffer from any form of AA. So get some materials together that work and stop using the same creepy approaches that are getting you rejected all the time.