Before i start, for reference, i just want to say that my game consists mainly of Conquer Your Campus (Social Game Theory), Real Social Dynamics, and a VERY slight hint of Mystery Method.

The night before, I went to a dance sponsored by the uni. There, I managed to cold open a cute girl -- lets say HB7. Surprisingly, we went to the same secondary school, so I managed to luck out finding some common ground with her. I had the kino going on early and pretty soon, I was grinding with her.

After a bit, she said she was tired, so I isolated and we went to a table. We talked about some stuff, but I kept it playful & pulled some misinterpretation and inferring (straight out of the conquer playbook.) I also followed some advice on the MPUAforums & asked her questions that wouldn't have autopilot answers (aka NOT "what's your major?")

When we got back on the dance floor, I started to dance with her friend that was also there just so that she doesn't end up being left out. Then I started to dance with some other girl. While I was with the other girl, some guy tried to pick her up. He started grinding her & you can tell there was a lot of tension. Her friend noticed and went there to extract her. (AFC fail!) While this was happening, I tried to be nonreactive (a la RSD).

Anyways, it was getting late, so she told me she was going back to the residences since she had a early class next morning. I number closed her & gave her one hug before she left. When I said we should hang out soon, she seemed interested.

Yesterday, I sent her some playful texts like "boo!" and other stuff in the Conquer playbook. She seemed to be playing along, so I sent her a text saying let's hang out this weekend. I got a text back from her saying she's pretty busy I texted her back saying it's her loss, but to have fun.

What should I do now? Should I text her about next week? I'm really confused because she appeared interested at the dance & in her first few texts...

heres my best advice. dont talk to her for a couple days. call her back within 2 weeks sometime. apologize for not talking to her since you've been really busy with life, school, work, drug abuse, unicycling, whatever. but here is the important part. make sure its a time of day when theres not a lot going on. early afternoon is usually good at my school. invite her to run some random errand with you. this works for me very well and puts the girl more at ease in my opinion. going to the grocery for a couple minutes is less commitment for them to make. at the grocery store just do your thing. find random foods, make jokes about odd fruits, i dunno what your thing is but just be fun. if she's having a good time, you should see some ioi's. this is your chance to bring her back to your place. after all you have to get your food in the fridge....

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It seems to me that most people tend to be stumbling at the same point here everytime...the text message that says lets hang out this weekend and the responce after which is "i'm busy this weekend maybe the weekend after". What works the best in the college SPAM is kind of mentioning what you are doing in passing. Such as my friends having a huge party this weekend I gotta save up some energy for it. She will probably respond with something o yea thats kool where is it? You telll her where it is but don't invite her her next responce will probably be like kool or something bland, which is when u hit her up with if you want to come that but you could of just asked or something like that. This works well in the college setting because a first "date" will work best if its to a party or something like that where she will feel comfortable. Plus this is showing that your a partyer and she is a small part of your plans whether she goes or not doesn't matter.

See this is your CONQUER YOUR CAMPUS book is missing out...

Any place, any time, anywhere(except on her turf) is your home field to game and progress. Why not make it casual that way she doesn't feel that its so much of a "date". Its always like this with girls, you ask them direct, not going to fly, but you be indirect or "use the side entrance" you'll get your desired results. Fucked up shit but thats how it works sometimes. Girls dont want to be seen as whores or easy? Ok so just changing it up how you ask makes a difference? Yea boy does it sometimes.

If i was you bro, just drop everything for a while, you extended your offer if shes really interested she'll retort with a offer of her own(study together, go out here, ask you to join her etc.). I mean honestly why be afraid to run on her. Let her be, why pursue her any further if you cannot progress any further? Be wasting more of your time.

I asked this one chick to do something on the weekend, i got the BS im busy or w/e(couldve been true, couldve been a lie, couldve been a test to see how i reacted..IDK i didnt care). I was frustrated, deleted her number and figured next target. Couple days later, incoming call from you know who. I was furious thinking wtf is about, called her back and in the most haggard words ive ever heard from someone she blurts out some jarble about hanging out. I was thinking the nerve of this girl, told her maybe we can figure out something but right now i gotta clock outta work bye. Hung up on her ass. Ended up talking to her later after i calmed down and boy did her attitude change...