Top-ster, there is no cheat sheet to being an alpha male.

Alpha male is a state of mind where you have extreme confidence and don't take shit from anyone. Yes, you described traits often seen in alpha males. However, to be a true "alpha male" you need to work on your inner game not your outer. Not everyone is cut out to be an alpha male, of course many can become an alpha male but it sure as hell isn't from learning their traits. Being alpha will not get you success with women, it doesn't guarantee it. I know plenty of "alphas" who are able to attract women but can never go farther than that.

Alpha is a state YOU reach, it's a state of mind. It's not something you can mimic, you're either born with it or you develop it over time but it isn't something you simply study. It's a personality trait, you shouldn't be imitating it because you're not being true to yourself.

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Yes, my name really is Ray Casanova

"With ignorance and arrogance, success is assured."

I agree that there's no way to teach someone how to be alpha; It it something that can only be learned. What I have listed are the mannerisms of alpha males, but at the same time they are not. Does every alpha male look into people's eyes when they speak? Does every alpha male keep his hands at his sides? Of course not. At the same time what is not listed on the sheet is to be confident, because being confident is something that you cannot simply do, yet that is the singular trait that all alpha males possess.

This is why the sheet does not change who you are. Is someone a different person when they project their voice in a loud and clearly where they used to murmur and stammer? Are they a different person when they look people in the eyes when they speak to them when they used to look down and to the side? No, of course not. None of these things take away from who they are. But how will people react to the person who used to murmur when they now speak with vindication? How will they react to the person who would look away who now looks them in the eyes? What happens is the person captivates people instead of repelling them. The person is regarded with more respect and acceptance. That is the beginning of the road to having confidence in oneself and being a true alpha male.

Case-in-point these traits don't turn you into an alpha male, but they provide you with the tools to do so.

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If my post made me appear homosexual, I want you all to know that prior to sitting down at my computer I slammed 15 shots of whiskey, went balls-deep into my woman, and recited Clint Eastwood lines for 20 minutes.

SO! how would I go about getting this stickied?

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If my post made me appear homosexual, I want you all to know that prior to sitting down at my computer I slammed 15 shots of whiskey, went balls-deep into my woman, and recited Clint Eastwood lines for 20 minutes.

Cool, I am doing everything exactly like that Also, don't be afraid to observe people and don't turn your eyes away when they look at you. Turn them away after a few seconds if you want but don't show that you scared of them looking at ya or soemthing.

Thanks for the list.

I want to add that if you have a beer in your hand try not to put it in front of your gut. If you are relaxed, it will be down at your side. You can walk into a bar or a club and immediately point out the alpha males by the position of his beer. Weak people guard their gut and their throat. It is a subconscious behavior that we do to protect ourselves.

Your feet are natural at shoulder length distance apart, any wider and it seems unnatural. Stick your chest out and roll them shoulders back. Walk with pride.

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Cover me im going in!

For me filling conversation with these useless words conveys an element of neediness. When you do this you are filling the air because you are afraid of silence. SILENCE is not the end of the world.

http://comfortablesilence.com/

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Excellent advice Easton. Think this'll help my inner game, esp since the clubs i like going to r always packed & there r times when u end up getting squashed into a corner.

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SpicySweet

Great list, I'm going to use that. I need to work the most on talking to fast and saying "um/like/uh", and leaning away instead of forard.


BTW, Top-Ster, I LOVE your signiture!

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Burning angelwings to dust