Why did she resist me?



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 Post subject: Why did she resist me?
PostPosted: Mon Feb 16, 2009 8:18 pm 
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Okay I've been seeing this girl for a while, we're young both legal obviously.

bit of background info, about 2 weeks ago when it snowed we spent the day together with her friend in the snow messing about etc, walked her friend back together then she stayed with me, we sat on a bench by the frozen lake and made out. When i first met her i was at a party and took her back to mine and pushed for sex, which she didnt want. But we made out, then I met her again and tried for sex but all we did was make out, generally because i was inexperienced.

so today I met her and we spent the day together from about 1 till 7ish, and lots of kino from her, we held hands a lot, met a friend of mine and then went back to mine, well we was on my bed messing about, play fighting tickling each other, then we laid down together and she rested her head on mine, our noses were touching and I slowly went to kiss her and she moved away! She turned round and said it was because she found it funny and ruined the moment!? I tried again later on but she still moved away. Well then we're back walking around the shopping centre holding hands, doing things couples do. When i had to go she walked me to the door and i got three pecks on the lips and a big hug where she squeezed tightly lol

my question is why am I getting ALL the right signals and then she rejected my kiss? Whats the score here?

Thanks fellas:)


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PostPosted: Mon Feb 16, 2009 9:24 pm 
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Haha that's really funny. What a tease. Fortunately this is one of those situations where you don't actually need to know why. Because the 'how' is clear and effective -

simply reverse the roles. Presently she is the prize and she controls the frame royally. Start making her chase you and only give in once you're at a seduction location. By constantly pushing you're only making her more powerful and getting further away from the lay. Props to you for the ploughing though. Most guys would just give up which is absolutely the wrong thing to do.

Don't be affected by her rejections - that's probably what she wants anyway. There are also other ways to deal with this but this is in my opinion the simplest and most effective. If you are familiar with NLP a faster way would be to push through her LMR using a metaphor, or you could elicit her criteria for a lay using a metaphor, then fulfill that criteria to get the lay.

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Another crucial point is to make her horny before you attempt to close. Sometimes closing is the natural thing to do, but girls can fuck with you like this one is if her pussy isn't wet for it. If you make her wet BEFORE you fuck her, she will oftentimes do anything to stuff your captain into her dudey hole.


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PostPosted: Tue Feb 17, 2009 4:53 pm 
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Haha cheers Raf good advice there, well yeah plainly it was quite funny her doing that the little shit, but i just laugh at that really and see the funny side,

have you got any tips or techniques for me to make her horny when we're on the bed in a similar situation?

I get the impression she only resisted because she thought I might push for sex again? hmm

well good take anyways


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PostPosted: Tue Feb 17, 2009 10:42 pm 
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yea either shes a tease or she didnt want to because she felt you where pushing for sex.


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