First of all, if your wife wants to be included in this threesome, she has to help you locate, isolate, attract, and close the girl. If she doesn't help, the only other threesome you will be having is with two girls whom you've just met. The reason being, there is very very rarely a girl who you'll be able to meet, attract, comfort, and then on top of all this, convince her to have sex with you and your wife, whom shes never met. She has no reassurance of any of the details needed to make up her mine, i.e. is your wife a girl she finds attractive, are you not just some psychopath who wants to kill her, and so on. So, first and foremost, you must explain this to your wife so she fully understands that if she wants to do this, she is going to need to participate equally, if not more than you. Thats just the way this type of threesome works, try anything else and you'll spend far too much time finding this girl who will join, and she will most likely be a trashy ex-hooker of some sorts.
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So I may have a partial answer to my own question. I've been pouring over the forums for like 14 hours now. Here's what I came up with to start. I run a normal set, example: I gota catch up with my wife but give me your opinion on blah blah blah. Their guard is down b/c no one with a wife would be trying to pick them up. Anyway, after appropriate chatter, I isolate the target, hopefully with friend as wing to hold off the CB's. Then I tell the girl you should meet my wife she'd love you. So we do, we all chat it. We invite the girl back to our place to "hang out".
Here's were i run into a problem. It's 3 of us, so to the girl it still feels like its going to be a social setting so more than likely she runs back to her friends and gets them to come. Or asks if they can come ect. How do i ensure that she comes alone with us back to our place where we can initiate the backrub routine and then the threesome. There's a lot of smart guys on here somebody give me an idea?
Excellent brainstorming, however, this scenario is not likely to play out in this manner. Low chance for success. Nonetheless, it could work. But in my personal opinion, your going to do alot of legwork with the hopes that all of the X-factors involved will play out correctly. Simplified, there is just far too much that is not in your immediate control, or the immediate control of you and your wife.
Moving on...
The following is a very rough summary/overview of what an old girlfriend and I used to do pretty regularly. Our favorite place to do it was obviously in a nightclub or bar with a suitable dance floor. In our situation, which may or may not work in your case, my girlfriend would act as if she had just met me the other day or some other short period of time ago. (Once again, this is purely optional)
Step One: Obviously, locate a target. I found that the easiest place to initiate contact in this situation is on the dance floor, so I'll describe that, but remember its just as easy at a barstool in some cases. Dance near the subject showing all the normal signs of people having a good time (you should be having one anyway), you and your girlfriend should both make good strong, provocative eye contact with the girl while close to her. Shoot a smile, seductive glance, whatever you feel appropriate. Move closer to her and maintain your level of dancing, bring your girlfriend in closer and continue to dance, kiss her or hold her playfully and make sure your target sees this. Allow your girlfriend some space as she should begin to dance with the target, stay close and try to maintain equal distance between the two of them, whether it be from the front, side or back. As long as you aren't giving off a bad vibe you should be able to get at least your girlfriend dancing with the target, if not the both of you. If the music isn't too loud, introduce yourself, if it is, just wait and continue to be playful and fun.
Step Two: Try to isolate her from her party if you feel shes ready for it by asking if she would like to grab a drink at the bar, your girlfriend should do this. One easy way is to have her ask the both of you by pulling you both in close to each other and talking to both of you at once. However, if you feel its not the right time to isolate her, invite her and her friends. Make sure your girlfriend has the money, so it looks like shes buying you the drinks, thus making you the prize. At this stage in the interaction you should be running game as you normally would, a variety of things will work, so I'm not going to waste time going over them. Make sure your wife is as involved in the conversation as much as you are, if not more. The real comfort is going to need to be developed by her between the two of them, then once that is achieved, it will be time to develop it between you. During the conversation your girlfriend should be dropping subtle hints about your intelligence, sexual passion, sexual skills, alpha-ness, and other DHVs; this, once again, is something I'm not going to harp on. However, make sure she doesn't sound like shes intentionally doing it, because the next step is this...
Step Three: Excuse yourself, say you have to go to the bathroom, grab more drinks for the table (that you should have moved to by now), phone call, or whatever else you can think of. During this period of time - AT LEAST 5 MINUTES - your girlfriend should really be selling you to this girl. Her conversation should start with something like a question if she has a boyfriend or lover at the moment, then moving onto how she met you, and what she has been doing with you. My ex-girlfriend would tell her that I was amazing in bed and that I'm more than she can handle sometimes, usually referring to how big my dick was (whether or not your well equipped won't matter once shes naked anyway) or how long you can last in bed (make sure you can last at least an hour including foreplay, oral, and sex, which shouldn't be hard if you have a wife). Also, make sure that she has plenty of other girl-talk and compliments towards the target. For example, she can tell her how gorgeous she looks, etc. Once you come back you can do several things: invite them to dance again, invite them to get some food at another place, more drinks and more conversation. In any case, make it fun, and don't drop any hints that your looking for a threesome, just maintain the outgoing, playful, energetic, and alpha personality that easily dominates the club scene. This step officially ends when you leave the club to go home to eat (best possibly option) or to another venue, etc.
Step Four: Leaving, once you've finally got the target to agree to leave. Whether shes heading to your house for food, late-night cocktails, a finely rolled blunt of chronic, or whatever, make sure that you demonstrate DOMINANCE and LEADERSHIP and INITIATIVE from this point until you arrive at your home. If the club is packed grab your girls hand who should in turn grab the targets hand, and lead them out of the club through the crowd in an authoritative manner, not letting other guys get in your way or hold up the process. If your leaving and need a cab, find one quick. If your driving home, put your arms around both of them and lead them to the car. You drive, and let them sit in the backseat if it seems right. (It should by this point.) I've found that a cab is a better option, especially if your close, because all of you will be together in the backseat. Anyway, you should be able to handle it if you've made it this far. Your girl should have developed STRONG kino with the target, and you shouldn't be too far behind her. She should be flirty with her, try bringing a camera and get them to pose together, and tell them how sexy or cute or whatever they look like. Continue to drop subliminal compliments towards the both of them.
Step Five: Finally, your home. Continue with whatever plan you have made for your reasons for going home. Whether its cooking them a meal, making them drinks, or whatever. Let her give a tour of your place (might not be a good idea if your story is that you met last night, but nonetheless, let your girlfriend help her get comfortable.) Good music is a must, no television. From here, shit gets pretty simple. You can do a variety of things. Such as make your girlfriend ask you for a massage, give her one, and she should invite the other girl to sit in front of her. The train massage I call it, after a few minutes you should switch and sit in front of the target, and so on. This will lead to a threesome almost definitely. Have your girlfriend kiss her neck and blah blah blah your there. Thats but one of the many techniques you can use, another one is to leave the massage or whatever is going on at the moment and let your girl initiate alone. Come back in, and rejoin carefully. Like I said, there is alot you can do, I'm not going to cover it all because my fingers are rather tired.
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NOTES:
-Drinks help
-Like I said, this was a rough overview, your going to have to run some tight game yourself, I wasn't about to cover that. However, anything you need is on this forum.
-If you have specific questions about another way or questions about this way, please ask, I'll answer them.
-Remember, have fun with your woman first, because you want to give off that aura. As well as sexual and playful vibes.
-This is unedited, so excuse any grammar or spelling.
-Your girlfriend is going to need to e as prepared to run game as much game as you are.
-Finally, this is not the only way, or a sure-fire way. There is no such thing. There are tons of ways, I've had a night where a different girlfriend of mine just walked up to random girls that I personally chose and asked them flat out if they wanted to have a threesome with her and I. It worked twice, maybe because she was absolutely gorgeous and I'm not such a bad looking fella myself, maybe we just got lucky. I couldn't tell you for sure. The point is, this situation, however you choose to approach it, has tons of X-factors. So prepare yourself for as many as you can identify, and be prepared to improvise when you need to.
Good luck buddy.
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