So I briefly met this girl(stripper) while I was back home before being shipped off to Iraq, well that was two years ago! It was her first night and wayyyyyyyyy before I had got into this kinda thing! We exchanged numbers and met up for dinner my last night being home and then we lost contact, because I had to cancel my cell phone.

Well just the other day I was checking out my best buddy's Myspace page and there she was, it took me a minute to realize it though! So I sent her a friend request, she accepted...Awesome! I sent her a message...(names are fake BTW!)
She wrote back within an hour...
...I replied back...
...Then she said...
I do remember that by the way!!...Any who, I wrote back...
...I'm not sure, but I think I came off a little awkward with that last sentence, but either way she hasn't respond back to the message, which i'm not too worried about, but what she did do was comment on my picture of one of my medals I received from Iraq!

She said "Your so brave and awesome!" It almost sounds like a shit test to me...but at the same time I don't think it is, I don't really know why!

What should I do? Sorry about the long ass post by the way!!

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-Crain Diesel

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Just remember with strippers, once a customer, always a customer.

If you never gave her money for dancing.. and I do mean NEVER...

Then you have chance with this girl... but, if you have given her money
while in the club, then you are forever labeled A CUSTOMER...

She will use you for your money and sleep with the other guys who have
not spent a DIME on her in the club.

A friend of mine is dating a stripper and they have been together for 3 years
now. He met her at a friends house in Cali, and they hit it off right from the
start because he acted as if he had no clue what she did for a living.

If you did meet her in a club and spent no money on her, then her flirting or
whatever is GENUINE and is not fake. But, if you spent money on her in the
club, then her flirting or whatever is FAKE and she is going to use you for
your money.

Just remember this always:

STRIPPERS HAVE TO TEASE AND FLIRT FOR A LIVING, AND THEY DO
IT BETTER THAN ANYONE ELSE, OTHERWISE, THEY WOULD NOT BE A
STRIPPER... RIGHT? THEY ARE THE ONES WHO DO WHATEVER IT TAKES
TO GET THE GUYS MONEY

EDIT: I don't think it was a SHIT TEST. It seems sincere to me.
Also, thanks for what you and all the others have/are doing for our
country. You are brave and awesome...

See, it's just in general showing praise for what you do for our country.

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That's great advice and all...but...that wasnt' really my question. I didn't ever get a lap dance from her, but that's beside the point.

My question was about her not replying/me coming off a little too strong and what should I say about the pic comment?

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-Crain Diesel

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In my opinion your last line did come across wrong. You lowered your value by implying you were a random person and there is nothing different about you, when in fact she knew you. You also did it earlier in the conversation when you assumed that she was to busy to hang out. I would take the frame that I'm awesome (because I am haha), so of course she would want to hang out with me, and of course she remembers me. I also think that you messages come across more friendly than anything. My experience has been that it is important to keep the conversation fun and interesting. It's all about what she is feeling. You've reconnected, now it time to move forward.

If it were me I would ignore the comment about the medals, and respond again to the tattoo line. Find some outrageous pictures of some really bad tattoos and send them to her saying that you have her tattoo all picked out. Your name with a heart or something, maybe tease a bit, push pull, try to get some attraction and investment from her in the conversation.

Well I actually meant to write the line about her being to busy to hang out with me! I was trying to imply that she was going to be too busy to have fun with me in order to prove me wrong and say that she will come out and have fun...I think that line was fairly successful. And thanks for the critism, I really do appreciate it...although I did pretty much already know what I did wrong.

Now what I REALLY appreciate is the info on how to recover!!!! Like I said, I'm not good at online game...it's just not my cup of tea, but since I'm thousands of miles away in the meantime it's all I really have to work with.

Thanks again, I'm gonna use the tattoo thing.

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-Crain Diesel

BOATS AND HOES!!!

Do you have a mic on the computer that you use?

DO you have MSN (Microsoft's Instant Messenger) or Yahoo messenger?

You can get her screen names for either of those messenger programs, and
actually TALK to her without even having to TYPE one word man.

You say you're not good at online game... make it real, so that you speak to
her and she speaks to you.

Win/Win situation I think. Semper Fi

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