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If she's walking in the street, try to walk besides her in the same direction, and reach out and touch her arm , "Can I ask you a quick question, do you think this shirt makes me look gay?"
If you touch her, she will usually stop! However, if you don't touch her, there's a good chance she'll keep walking, with you following behind her like a fool. This will make her feel uncomfortable and you feel uncomfortable aswell. If she doesn't stop then don't pursue her.
The opener I mentioned above has worked on women in the street. I didn't get their numbers, but they were very receptive and open to chat.
This is the structure:
Me: Hey, can I ask you a quick question? Do you think this shirt makes me look gay?
Wait for her response
Me: The reason I'm asking is because I was just having a drink in that pub down there and this tall guy came over to me and said: "Hey, I like that Shirt, would you like me to buy you a drink?" .
Wait for her response
I was kinda upset because I always thought I gave off a very strong heterosexual aura, and now I'm not to sure!
(wait for her response)
I was quite shocked. I almost spat my drink all over him.
(TRANSITION INTO SOMETHING ELSE)
Dude no offense but i didnt like these at all. In my experience you NEVER want to approach a girl from the side or behind like you suggested to begin with. Always approach from the front and at a slight angle. Also, I never initiate contact by touching them, that just screams stalker at them... and it puts them on the defensive right from the get-go, something you dont want. Also, why would you ask if youre giving off a homosexual vibe??? Dude, that screams lack of confidence to me.... If you wanna use that id try something like
You: Do you think this shirt looks good on me?
Her: yeah, it looks nice ( or something like that)
You: I mean, I know i look good but dang i just had a guy try to pick me up in a bar.....
Her: haha well yeah you look pretty cute in it.
You: I know but dang, not cool haha... (transition)
I really refrain from saying anything that questions my own value, espesially in the initial stages when youre making your first impression. To me,
-I thought I put off a real strong hetero vibe but now Im not sure- I think the girl is literally going to hear.... I thought I was straight but damn i dunno now....
I dunno man, all and all just seemed weak to me.