Alright here's the deal met a girl at the club, everything went fine. Was making fun of her for various things, ignored her a little by texting others while she was right in front of me, did some DHV blah blah blah. Anyway she asks to put her name in my phone then puts her name with an exclamation mark.

So I text her the next day, (I've read a multitude of things on waiting, not waiting, or it doesnt matter). I make her laugh and what not. Now at the club the previous day me and my friend mentioned we were going to a concert the next weekend, and they immiediatly said they wanted to come. I say to her are you going to come stalk me at the concert on friday or what? Something came up so she can't go but she says her plans are still open for the weekend. I txt to her again the next day a couple of jokes and what not, nothing passed that. Today I decide not to txt her so it doesn't become routine.

Here's the thing this weekend I got huge party house after the concert, and we need more chicks there. Of course I want her there (the multiple IOI's and wait time between my txt and her responce tells me i'm in) so whats the next step. I always do good with the initial meeting and firsts txts but then fall short after. Any advice?

Good shit so far man, it sounds like this girl is definitely interested in you, and you can tell because she first put her name in your phone, then invited herself to your event, and after that fell through, still said she's free. Clearly she wants to see you again, so invite her to your party after the concert. However, don't ask her if she wants to come by saying something like "Hey would you liek to come to my after party for the concert." Rather, tell her she should come and make her feel like you're busy, but want her to come along to enjoy the time with you. Something like, "Hey I'm having a party after the concert and you're coming."

Thanks Amb will do i'll give you an update...any other advice, questions, and or criticism is welcome.

I'm good to go right now, the convo went like this if anyone wants reference for some txting game

Me: you get way to many days off from college (she only goes tues. and thurs.)
HB:Lol sorry you don't get that many days off
Me: hahahahahaha Dont be sorry for me im just sick (which is true) and i have big plans this weekend,
HB:LoL!Big Plans? Huh big timer are we?
Me: hahaha thats how i roll...actually my friends and i are renting out a huge mansion in the mountains this weekend
HB:Lol Woo you are a big timer lol...for what?Just to party?
Me: (It's basically just a big party weekend for our college i'll save the explanation for u guys)...geez if you want to come just ask
HB:Lol! She says definately if my friend gets back from out of town before then (her friend and my friend are talking but she is currently busy and doesn't know if shes going to back from out of town)
Me:O yea forgot...you can bring more people we are partying up there remember...try not to bring a bunch of dudes though i know your a big player and all

And it goes on from here but thats the gist.All texting by the way.