Day 2, after getting shut down in the taxi, because it was too late (4:30am) and she lives with her parents (most korean girls not married live with parents) I make plans for the next day.
We meet at 7:30 pm at my place, I'm going to cook her dinner. I have been cooking since I was 8years old (thanks mom!) and its a Major DHV for all girls, but especially Koreans where men don't cook anything.
She gets to my house and is only a little hungry. I immediately re-instagate the kino from the night before, she reacts fine. We play around with kino and kissing and I lay her on the bed get her really hot, then say. "Alright, lets make some dinner." and I walk off to the kitchen. She lays there a moment still breathing heavily. I cook. More Kino. I teach her a little about cooking.I make her lamb (her first time More kino. we finish and she says "oh you've got beautful eyes (mine are green) I say "yeah, but the white light hurts them." I turn off the main light and turn on a dim yellow light directly over my bed.
We lay there kissing and touching for a few minutes, then she says "but we only met one day ago." I aknowledged this and go into an anchoring technique with the feeling of attraction and eye contact and how the body gets hotter and hotter when we're attracted to someone. As I'm saying this she begins to relax and her legs uncross. I move closer. I keep talking about attraction in a gentle voice while kino-ing and kissing her. She relaxes more and beings to breathe more heavily.
For each item of clothing I removed from her she would say "oh this is too fast, its been only a day." I aknowlege. and use the anchor to relax her. then another piece of clothing....
It took a little while to get her naked and comfortable (Koreans are pretty shy) but once we were involved she came faster than I've ever seen a woman cum. We finished at 3:45am. Long story short, thats why I'm tired today.
Turns out she lives about 10min walk from my place.

I'd like to follow with a question. I was weak in countering the "but this is all too fast" thing. What are some good counters for that? I'm happy with the finish, but I'd like it to go a little smoother with the disrobing. Any pointers?

Do exactly as Style mentions: push-pull

You were all hot and heavy. When she protests, then you pull away. She's left confused, because you suddenly became distant. When she starts signaling she wants affection, then you move in again.

Push-Pull.

You're going to entice her more with each pull. Be careful not to act like a prick. Just be a little distant.

DING DING DING DING DING DING