I have 6 brothers and I've been in your situation before. Everything these guys have said is dead on, but id like to mention that when your not stressing about a situation having to do with a girl (or should i say stressing about not getting a girl or someone crushing in on your target) it makes you look less needy and girls like that because it shows a sign of dominance in a male. its almost a DHV or a neg because shes going to be wondering why the fuck all these other guys are on her jock and your not. I dont know if it will work for you, but it has worked for me and when It didnt and she chose some chump over me I always felt like I got the better end of the deal because Id rather have a woman with standards than someone willing to be with anybody. and if she goes with a guy thats not a chump then I look at him like an asshole that I have respect for and try to learn from his game.

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