as you can tell from the title i'm confused about of number of things.

1. what should i do if i catch a girl looking at me in class (college) or a group meeting or something

2. when can i start talking to a girl like a normal person and not have to be funny or witty, just being real?

3. i'm not sure what two girls in particular think of me. and its buggin the crap out of me. one girl was supposed to bring my hat to a meeting tonight b/c i forgot it at her place one party, and as soon as i got there she told me she forgot it. at the end of the meeting she told me just to txt her to bring it to this other meeting we have tomorow. so i dont know if that means anything or not.

4. secondly this has plagued me my whole life i never know what to do when a few girls are around and i'm in the room and they dont acknowledge me, especially if i kind of know them. I never know iff they are ignoring me or if that means they want me to come talk to them.

5. lastly .. analyze this istuation. i was at a meeting and it was for kids with cancer, were on a committee to raise money for it. theres a girl i like in it, and i was about to leave, and her and this other girl were asking me if i was staying to write mail for the kids, i wasn't going to, but then i did b/c it was for a good cause. but i dont know if i looked whipped right there or what. and when everyone got up at the end of the meeting the girl i like ran up to this other kid thats in the committee that she knows, and i can't figure out if she likes him or not, or if she was tryin to get me jealous. so 'im confused right now to say the least

You're over thinking everything.

1. Smile, approach later "you can't just look at me like that and not talk to me"/"this isn't a free show, pay up"

2. The real you should be funny and witty with depth.

3. Not everything has hidden meaning. She forgot your hat, end of story.

4. Just talk to them. If they subcominicate discomfort, excuse yourself.

5. IMO you got played. Find some other girls.

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ur right with overthinking .. i'm doing that too much anymore.

how long do i make eye contact with them when they look at me? i always feel like i'm catching them looking at me, so i feel like i wasnt supposed to see it or something and then i just put my head down.

i feel like i got played, but this girl does shit that keeps me thinkin she likes me.. like she signed up .. her and her two hot friends for the same time i have a shift. they signed up in the same slot after i did. i catch her lookin at me, and she told me shed smoke a blunt w/ me. so i dont know how to interperet it really

EC until she breaks it. Chances are she thinks your quick looking away is her catching you looking at her. Hold EC as a show of confidence with a light smirk-like smile.

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