ok well here is the story me and this girl knew eachother when we were really young. Then we went to different schools in highschool and we had some problems. Well in my second year in college hers first we have hung out once and been calling and textilg a lot. I think she wants me to come visit her on sat our schools r like 2 hours away and she is really hott like a 9. Well she called me and was like freaking out saying omg what do I do I have this test and essay to do then I answerd and she was like I love u u know that right and I was like yes. Then she is like ok thank u imma get some sleep love u and I'm like alright goodnight. And she is like what u don't love me? And I was like u gotta earn my love and she was like well u earned mine then she was like fine goodnight. What should I think of this and do?

Hey hardhitter, so you two only called and texted each other a lot and nothing else? No kissing or any other physical thing going on?

Ahh heck, it doesn't matter..because this girl said I love you, and when you didn't say it too she got angry with you. Normally, best friends also say love you and stuff like that all the time, but they DON'T get mad when you don't return the favor. Getting angry because of it means craving I love you too more than anything else, and getting upset if the words remain unspoken.

What it means is that this girl has just declared her love for you before YOU did, which is pretty friggin' uncommon because 99% of the time the men have to make the first move, and YOU didn't return it. So does she like you? Hell yeah, I'm willing to bet you that she had a crush on you ever since she was a little girl if there hasn't been any physical contact so far. So here's what you do: call her, text her, or better: visit her and kiss her already because this girl wants you and wants you BAD. You just didn't realize it before because you didn't understand the weight of those words and why she said them.

Well we did go out in the 8th grade for like a month but only kissed. And I think your right I think I'll reward her tommorow with a compliment text or a flirtasious text for she doesn't think I'm disinterested

Bump...

Dirty D is spot on with this IMO...

You gotta decide how you feel about her... and if you feel the way she does then go get the girl already.

you definatly did the right thing by not returing those words, unless you mean it!!! If she got angry by you not replying the 3 words back to her it could of been a defence (her feeling stupid cause you didnt reply in the like and she though you would) or she may of just wanted to hear someone say that to her to see how it feels. Either way what I would do is show how much I care for her (even if not love her!!!) by doing/taking her to what she likes and spending "real" time with her IE doing what you know whe loves (even if it isn't your thing).... just dont say I LOVE YOU unless you mean it, things get sticky if you do.

Take it easy dude

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take it from me, reward her courage, don't leave her in limbo.

thats if you like her obviously, depends what the goal is really.