Used this on a girl I met online. Ok we were talking about Valentine's Day and I later suggested that she should her bf take her to the most expensive restauraunt in town and buy her an expensive gift. She said she would feel bad doing and this and then I was like "Come on I'm sure he'll do it". After she admitted that he would, essentially admitting that he would be needy and try to bribe her into keeping him. Now this girl is pretty sweet so I don't think she would leave him that easily but getting her to admit that he would pull an AFC move was a BIG victory since she'll probably start thinking whether she wants to stay with someone who is THAT needy.

Well, this is certainly gonna backfire on you. You're not gonna get a flood of replies saying "wow cool". I'll get the ball rolling with a question.

You've never had a girlfriend, have you? Buying your partner a gift on valentines day is bribing them into keeping you? Shit yeah, I remember one year my GF took me for a nice meal, I dumped her ass so fast it made her head spin. How needy can you get? Being nice to me on valentines day, it's fucking unheard of. What treachery. (Just incase you're not sure, that was sarcasm. If you're still scratching your head, go to wikipedia and look it up.)

There isn't a girl out there who would think her bf was pussy whipped for treating her on valentines day. What kind of person thinks like this? If you honestly think splashing out on your GF a little (on the one day of the year it's encouraged) comes across as needy or insecure - you need your head seen to. Not only is it encouraged, it's expected... it's a tradition. Like christmas. You remember christmas... bearded dude, red suit. All that stuff. Oh yeah, and stop gaming girls if you know they have boyfriends. The way you describe it, the guy isn't an asshole, he doesn't treat her like shit, so what business is it of yours to split them up so you can have your way with her? I'm totally against them, but this is the worst excuse for a "boyfriend destroyer" that I've ever seen.

You didn't read my post closely did you? I exaggerated by suggesting that she make him do something ridicolous like buying her a bunch of expensive shit and taking her out and paying for everything to the point where he would go bankrupt thus making him look needy and I had her laughing about it too. Then I suggested I could find him a good bankruptcy lawyer. They haven't been together for even a month so I don't even know if I should even call him her boyfriend. I doubt she'll break up with him but it's worth trying to just see what will happen. And any guy who would bankrupt himself over any girl as far as I'm concerned IS needy and AFC and the fact that I got her to admit that he would was even greater. I doubt she's gonna dump him for a guy she hasn't even met over the net but it may cause her to lose attraction to him, but she still seems a bit too sweet to break up with him even if she isn't to him. She already said she isn't that picky about who she dates so yeah, but she does like me. I used another destroyer where I said "Oh well it's a good thing he's a nice guy or I'd have to kidnap you, take you to a dessert island, and drink rum with you all night". Her response was "I love rum" and she always laughs(or lols on the internet) when I talk to her. And there's nothing wrong with bf destroyers, if she's really into him she won't cheat/break up wit him. If she does cheat or break up with then she probably was never into him in the first place. One of my favorite games is to find taken girls and see how far I can get until they bring the bf up but I never bring it up myself. And personally I despise Valentine's Day for the simple reason that it encourages every bad trait that causes men to fail with women. But thankfully we have guys out there like Mystery to teach us the proper way.

im gonna have to agree with solomon, only cause i really just dont feel like reading that block of text you have there.

use some paragraphs man!

If i heard i guy wasnt going to do anything for his GF on valentines day i would kick him! There is no need to go ott with expensive meals and stuff but every guy girl dog and cat wants a treat on valentines day! even if its just a card or something, imagine the fall out her friends would cause
"so HB - what did X get you??"
"nothing"
"seriously, hahahaha, what a pric"

The actual gift doesnt matter, its the fact you thought about her. Things like this make me realise why people say PUA is just taking AFC brainwashing and swapping it with something else.