So theres this girl that i know from highschool. Its been about 4 years, but back then i had a crush on her and was going to ask her out but her friend came along and we had our thing, and i just never got the chance. Now she works at the mini mart in my neighborhood and i go in and sorta flirt with hr now and then. Ive already got her number and email, but were nothing more than friends at the moment, though i do think she acknowleges sexual tension.

Anyway, I definately want to get with this girl, she is even hotter than she was in highschool and is totally girlfriend material. My concern is thaty she broke up with her boyfriend a few months back and was heartbroken about it, and still is. Now her ex just got into a serious oil field accident and lost 13 teeth and shit. She is totally consumed by it and i dont know how to approach her anymore.

How should i encourage her to move on? How am i supposed to address the whole thing; should i? Im kinda in a pickle and and im not sure where to go with it. Any advice?

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Its not the material-----Its the Execution

Gimme anything. I cant really use BF destroyers. Besides showing her that i can be an amazing boyfriend im not sure how to make her forget about him or at least move on.

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Its not the material-----Its the Execution

how do you forget about something?

I know when my gf and I broke up 18 months ago, I was sick to my stomach for about 4 months, and ended up dropping out of school.

I tried to have sex with as many girls as possible, and it didn't make me feel better.

Then I got into affiliate marketing, and it was a new challenge or hobby for me. Which lead me into pua scene. And it was at the instant I was just over her.

Of course I still have a soft spot for her, and thinking about her makes me smile, and when I smell her perfume on another woman it makes remember all the great memories.

So I don't think can make her forget, but maybe distract her, take a new hobby together. Maybe go on bike rides. Start rock climbing, just go out and have fun.

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Look at other NLP techniques. They're all designed as minor hypnotism. You could practically pull all of her ex out.

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Every Saint has a Past, Every Sinner has a Future

If you want her to forget her ex, you have to GIVE her something to forget about. I'm talking about you. Elicit a range of emotions from her while she is vulnerable, and slowly but surely you will replace her ex.

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I'm addicted to facing my fears.

Thanks for the advice guys, appreciated

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Its not the material-----Its the Execution

None of this works. Basically it works like this. On a broad's wedding night if you were not her first she won't be thinking only of you I am serious. That is how a female works. Her first real love NEVER leaves her. He just stays and stays and stays.

You make the choice. There is only one number one. Nobody remembers who came in second, but they ALWAYS remember Mr. Number One.

Personally, I only get feelings for virgins. Reference the above comments to know why. I don't want boy baggage.