So last wensday I ask this girl in my class to go to lunch with me during our math class. She said no and I went to lunch by my self any ways.
Today she does not go to this class our math class.
however I do know she was hear today cause I have her for a class with her before the math one.
I did not speak with her earlier cause I was late to class and sat away from her. I did not bother to wait for her either (wanted to give her her space)
is there some kind of connection here? what is she trying to say?

I'll be blunt, so please don't take it personally.


It says she skips classes every once in awhile and doesn't like you.

so I should not call her, nor give her her space? There is no way in going back to my old self and not acting so needy? I should not even ask why she did not show up to class?

I agree with Pat. She doesn't like you. Figure out if she's worth it. If so, make her jealous by hitting on another girl.

that blows and it was my dumb ass fault. The way I acted last week was uncalled for. And it pisses me off so much cause I know what the fuck I am doing wrong but do not fucking fix it. I fall into the same fucking trap over and over allowing my self to be hurt. I am not hurting cause of this girls, I a hurting cause of all the girls i fucked up with. I know what to do I have memorized every fucking thing the book has to say. But I fuck shit up! I do not know what to do any more.

how old are you? You seriously sound between 13-16. If you are i wouldn't even be on this website... i mean you have a long way to go before you'll come anywhere near realizing what anything in any PUA book really means. u want feminine attention? get off the internet and start playing a sport. get the confidence you need first. trust the best years are ahead of you... and yeah the truth sucks but more than likely you'll have to wait a couple years to get what you want now.

p.s. learn to type.

i agree with colloso you do sound younger but mabey your just getting a late start

I would reccommend not asking girls out that are in your class because then you have to see them everyday if they turn you down. Its good to practice your game on girls you dont have to see every day because then if they turn you down you can just learn something from it and you dont have to feel akward for the rest of the school year. And there are probably more girls at your school than you could possible ask out in a lifetime so dont just limit yourself to the ones in your classes.