Whutsup fellas, this past week has been hella crazy. last friday i met a german HB9 at a club through one of my friends who's friends wit her sister (HB8), and from the start i knew she was attracted to me, that night was very sucessful i ran my routines and DHVd, i even had a chick offered to go and do coke off her body!! no lie, and she asked me right in front of the chick i was sargin. later that week the german chick and her sister and my friend and i went to the beach and had a blast (my friend ate a mini squid at a restaurant and on the ride back home barfed on the side of the road on a spider, lol) and at the end of that night we went to the club, there we were exchangin iois, she rubed the inside of my theigh while i had my arm around her. Then the AFC from in me blurted " im really attracted to u but i dont want to get too close because i know ur going back to germany in a few days" she replied by telling me she had a BF for 4yrs and thats the only person shes been wit. i was a lil pissed b/c i didnt want to destroy what they had just beacuse i wanted some action, but i didnt let it bother i just went on the dance floor leaving her alone and danced wit my friends then this chick who i know as a friend, just started dancing wit me and was tryin to makeout wit me and actually whisperd in my ear that she wants to fuk me, i ignored this b/c she is my friends ex and my ex girlfriend's bestfriend so i didnt want to make anything awkward, after that i made out wit this 21yr HB7.5 just b/c it was her bday and she had a list of stuff she had to do that night which included makeout wit a college freshman. after that the german chick i guess watched all this stuff happen wanted to dance wit me, she wouldnt stop but i managed to prie her of my dick, left her, and danced wit a HB8.5 (1pt b/c of her ass) who kept sneakin quick glances at me, i later on # closed her. at the end of the night the german chik still wanted to hang out wit me b/fore she left the U.s. and insisted i call her the next day (today). i dont think i will, i have finals this week. at that bar my social proof was very high i knew alot of people there including staff and i know how to dance.

Sorry for the long post fellas, but what i really wanted to ask was how could i have changed my AFC moment? she completely threw me off my game, i didnt know what to say except "respect".

Thanks and Cheers

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I would have gently moved her hand that was on your thigh to her breast, or inner thigh and said softly, "not now" then i would have got up and gone somewhere else.

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I like demonic's idea. drop a big hint and then take what she wants away. Gotta love that cat string theory.

Caveat: I'm an AFC with ambition. But I'm decent looking, and can close. Now, if you're with a German HB9 and you have your arm around her and she has her hand on your thigh....I'm not sure you need to cat string it. You ended up leaving her, dancing with others, kissing others, and coming back to her.

Girls are horny too. She later told you that she'd only been with her boyfriend of 4 years, meaning she was looking for a little comparative action with you. I'm not pushy, but if I'm with someone I'm attracted to and the physical stuff is building, just let it build. Gently proceed forward.

If you encounter resistance, thats when you have to re-access and use your skills. But why make things more complicated than they need to be. It's not far from the the thigh to the crotch, and that's where she wanted to go. I think all you had to do was give her the green light and show some interest.

yea, the only reason why i didnt really escalate was beacuse i didnt want us to get attached and make things weird between her boyfriend when she went back. i dont know, i think i really botched that up because i let my emotions get the better of me, i just forgot to go wit the flo. any suggestions in what kind of kiss close i could of used?

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