i'm in a committee with like 30 girls, i'm one of like 5 guys. theres one girl in teh commitee that sticks out more to me than most. i'm tryin to get with her, but im gettin mixed signals.. she actsl ike she likes me and told me to call her tonite and i did and she never answered, so an hour later i shot her a text and still nothing.

so i'm thinkin of just talkin to as many girls as possible on this committee. they all know each other thru the commitee but theyre not all roommates or really close outside of it.

is that a good idea? or would that probably end badly?

the problem is that i can keep anything that happens on the d/l but i dont know if they will, so if anything was to hapen shit would hit the fan possibly

I think it's an excellent idea. You're not going to be hung up on her and chasing her around. If she wants you, she's going to have to put forth a little more effort (like calling you back).

Don't under any circumstances make any kind of big deal (or even a little one) about not being able to reach her. Don't bring it up even. If she asks why you didn't call, or appologizes for not calling you back, shrug it off (in the case of the former, just mention that you did, but it's cool).



There's a million reasons why she didn't answer or call back. It doesn't seem like you're sweating it, so I don't think you need to be told not to worry.

yea i'm not really worreid about it

the only thing is that i'm puttin more weight on gettin her than anyone else because i'm the most attracted to her and it would be nice to get with her over any of the other girls.

but regardless i'm just gunna talk to all girls

another thing i noticed i've been doin is at our socials i'll be flirting with all the girls. but i wasnt sure if that would like piss off this girl that i like .. or if it would make her more attracted to me

Depending on her personality, she might get caty and snatch you away, but more likely, she'll shy away. That's when you slip a little interest back in for her.

Let her see you talking to other girls. If she backs away, that's your queue to have a short chat with her to let her know that you're still looking at her as a possibility.