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PostPosted: Mon Feb 09, 2009 7:26 pm 
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Just musing here...I've read about half of "The Game", all of Ross Jeffries "How to Get the Women You Desire Into Bed", and have started reading "The Mystery Method" by Mystery.

It really strikes me that Mystery and Ross Jeffries approach the same goal in a very different way. For instance, Mystery is all about creating attraction where it may not exist, whereas Ross Jeffries seems to take the approach of "hit on everyone, and work with those who respond favorably". Mystery is more focused on the social elements, whereas Ross is more focused on a loner approach and using NLP. The NLP concepts are very interesting, but I think I'd have to personalize it before it would feel authentic to me (and to a target). I think that for me, Mystery's approach is probably easier to execute, but I'm not sure yet (still reading).

Anyway, this is all fascinating stuff. My goal isn't really to lay a different woman every night, nor to find a new wife. There's a happy middle ground in there somewhere, and that's where my intentions lie.

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Just musing here...I've read about half of "The Game", all of Ross Jeffries "How to Get the Women You Desire Into Bed", and have started reading "The Mystery Method" by Mystery.

It really strikes me that Mystery and Ross Jeffries approach the same goal in a very different way. For instance, Mystery is all about creating attraction where it may not exist, whereas Ross Jeffries seems to take the approach of "hit on everyone, and work with those who respond favorably". Mystery is more focused on the social elements, whereas Ross is more focused on a loner approach and using NLP. The NLP concepts are very interesting, but I think I'd have to personalize it before it would feel authentic to me (and to a target). I think that for me, Mystery's approach is probably easier to execute, but I'm not sure yet (still reading).

Anyway, this is all fascinating stuff. My goal isn't really to lay a different woman every night, nor to find a new wife. There's a happy middle ground in there somewhere, and that's where my intentions lie.

Gruuve
The problem with Ross's method is that women are very seldomly found alone in any kind of social interaction. You might catch them during "day game" alone but that's a different entity. Anyways, whatever method you decide just pick one, stick with it, get it working, then integrate other stuff! :D That way you ensure you get a system down that gets you the girl.

After a while you'll have your own natural mixture of things that you do.

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PostPosted: Wed Feb 11, 2009 10:57 am 
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They are both successful in what they do so both methods work. It is a matter of personal taste. I myself favor the MM... It works for most people while RJ stuff does not work for everyone.


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