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decided to move this topic to this part of the forum since it fits more into this criteria. ANy help is appreciated

Ok I am looking for real help in this situation so here it is:

At the football homecoming game one of my friends (a girl) introduced me to this real cute girl. Immidately she stands next to me and like looks up at me and said hey and smiles. Then I just said hey back and asked if she was a freshmen and she said yeah. ( im a junior)Then I said haha freshmen. I talked to my other friend a little bit more ( girl still standing by my side) and then she said we gotta go get our tickets. As they walked away I saw the girl turning her head looking back at me.

So my main question is what can I do to get with this chick? Any holes in this type of situation ? I added her on FB and she said she did not remember me. I guess my real dilemma is that I want a chick that like me for who I am and a chick that I can really actually like who is independent and I think she is the one. I been contemplating to approach and say hey remember we met or whatever, but she doesnt remember me so what can i do? Oh and btw i am asian and she is white , maybe that will be a factor in my pursuit.. what do you guys tihnk? what can i do to get with her ? BTW the friend that introduce me to her i talk to her a lot regularly and stuff.

Some info on the chick is that i heard from my friend she has had A LOT bfs. I also dont want her to like me b/c im a junior(older) or b/c i have a car and all that shit. But my car is really crummy Razz. Anyways to sum this up what is the FIRST step to get with this girl.. like her number ect

any help is appreaciated.

skin colour shouldn't be a factor that works against you and I hope it dosen't ever work against you.
I've never seen it to be a issue with any of my friends, and my friends are of all ethnics!

Ok, so you added her on facebook, she said she didn't remember you, why walk up to her and ask her if she remembers you?

You have contact through facebook use it, next time you see her, you wont need to go "hey remember me" and have her go "i told you on facebook, no i dont remember you"

You will already have some rapport and familiarity with her, so continue your attraction material, negging teasing etc, and offline, get the kino going, something you cant do through a screen!

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im just going to approach and be like "oh you dont remember me"!? but ill say hi first

OK. So she made it a "point" to stand next to you? Was there room around
all of you so she DID NOT HAVE TO STAND NEXT TO YOU? If there was
room around all of you, and she intentionally stood next to you, then this
goes along with the "proximity system." She was standing next to you,
because she was/is attracted to you.
Her turning her head and looking back at you was another sign that she
is interested in you. If she does not turn her head to look back at you,
then she does not want to see you again. Simple.
Her saying that she did not remember you is total bullshit. It is. Her saying
this is "chick code" for her trying to get you into her little trap of QUALIFYING
YOURSELF to her. Don't do it. If she said that she don't remember you,
leave it at that. Don't try to make her remember. Next time you see her,
walk up to her and say, "Hey... have you seen (your other friend)?"

If she says, "No." Then just come back with, "Oh, tell her I need to talk to
her about someone." (Now, you need to pay attention to this girls skin tone.
If it starts becoming more "RED" than it already is, then she is thinking that
you want to talk to YOUR OTHER FRIEND about HER (the fish).

As mentioned above. She knows who you are.
You could always tell this girl, "I don't usually date white girls, but, for you,
I might make an exception. Tell me why I should date you?"

This could go TWO WAYS... She could start QUALIFYING herself to you, or,
she could play a little bit by saying, "Why would I date you?" Then, here is
where you start the playful negging and everything.
Make sure that this FRIEND does not try and screw up your game with this
NEW GIRL that you are interested in. Girls somehow get this jealous streak
going on inside them that says, "If I am lonely, all my friends will be too."
Sounds like your FRIEND might want you, or... she is telling you that this
girl has either (a) not found the right guy or (b) she sleeps with a lot of guys.
This means that you probably will not have to do a whole lot of gaming in
order to lay this girl.
If you want her number, go up to her, and tell her, "Hey, I am in a hurry,
(hand her a pen and paper) put down your number so you can take me
out this weekend. I'll call you later when I'm not busy."

If she hesitates, tell her this, "Come on! I am in a hurry. Just write it down."

Nine out of ten times, if you are CONTROLLING with them (dominance),
they will comply with your wishes. I know it's hard to explain, but hell, girls
like guys who are DOMINANT and controlling (sometimes).

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Whats the proximity system? Some of these terms are still new to me

Proximity System is basically this...

If a girl finds you attractive, she will make sure to put herself near you in
any given situation so that you might notice her and strike up a conversation.

We, as humans, tend to gravitate towards what interests us. Do you ever
find yourself walking to the electronics section inside a Wal-Mart... you want
to go look at that big screen TV or that new video game that just came out...
right???

This works the same way with girls out in the dating field. If they like you,
they will make it there mission (unconsciously) to be near you. It might
just be like 10 feet from you at the most. If there are no more empty
seats at a restaurant, don't use the proximity system, they just need a
place to sit down.

However, if there are many seats open AWAY from you, and she decides
to sit close to you, and she might even make eye contact with you, then
she is open to being approached by you.

The girls that are shy are usually the ones who do this. Don't get me wrong,
there are shy girls who are in fact 8-9's, and then there are some shy girls
who are even 10's...

I hope this helps, but if someone feels like just posting what is written
in the Mystery Method, then so be it. I think my explanation made it more
clear than how it was explained in the book. (My opinion of course XD)

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ALrite thanks ill tell u how it goes when i approach

Oh yeah, dude how sure r u that she DOSENT remember me? Ima try what u suggest and can u elaborate more on this "chick code" on why if ur theory is true that she is pretending to not remember me?

She is pretending to not remember you because she wants you to try and
qualify yourself to her by saying we met here, I was wearing this and that,
you were wearing this and that... blah blah...

But then again, now that I think about it, she might not in fact remember you
because she might have gotten drunk, high, or whatever...

But by her looking back at you, she will remember you. If you are trying to
make contact with her online, then you need to let her know where you two
met. I think I made a mistake on this part...

If contacting someone that you met in real life, online, then you will have
to help them remember how you two met.

My bad... I messed up on this the first time.

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Im going to approach hopefully it will go well, but im going to ask have u seen my fren and then be like " you dont remember me?" i think in person is much better than online but again who knows

Here's my take about ONLINE GAME and OFFLINE GAME...

ONLINE GAME: Indirect, non-confrontational, shyness is deflated, use
online game to break the ice and break down her shields. You also might come off
as a sales person by making her feel good, come off as a sales person for
asking her questions, come off as an ass by using cockiness and funny at the
same time... I prefer offline game myself rather than online game.

I use online game just to set up a date/meeting in the real world.

OFFLINE GAME: Personal touch, body language, facial expressions, voice tone,
and all the other great stuff you cannot do online.

Like I said before, I use online game in order to break down a few shields
that may be lurking underneath. I break down the shyness shield (a new person
what do I do)... I let her get comfortable with me by using humor and asking
her what she thinks of certain things, (getting her input makes her feel
wanted)... I let her get to know a little bit about me so that she is interested
and curious as to who I really am. (build mystery to capture her imagination)...

I could go on and on, but I won't. I am sure that you all get the jist of what
I am saying and know how to do everything that I have mentioned above.

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Yeah I see her looking at me a couple of times that is why I am going towards the offline game more. I am 50/50 on if she remembers me or not, but if she really dosen't why she always looking?

Ok anyways here is what im going to do if it goes good then im going to just let the convo/relationship flow..

hey have u seen ________
convo goes on..
"u dont remember me"? in a heartbroken way ect..

Now looking back at the setting, u were completely right about the proximity system.

Yo another thing, I been evastropping on my friends convos ( the one that introduced me to this chick) and it seems like they have "some" problems and they dont talk AS much or at all no more, basically they just have issues... not surprised girls r always jealous of hot chicks.. just some MORE background information