I recently started tanning at this tanning salon based primarily on the fact that the place is full of hot chick working there.. I immediately found a primary target, we will call her Brittney.. After about a month of tanning on only the days she works, I finally got her number and got her to hang out with me.. The only problem was she had a boyfriend, but lucky for me they just broke up like yesterday. Now my problem is that my own younger brother is also talking to her now.. Me and my brother both hung out with her last night, and i was on, i was crackin jokes left and right, throwing negs at her every now and then, and flirted with her lightly.. I think i will come out ontop because me and this girl are both educated, while my brother is a complete dip-shit and could barely pass high school.. How can I show to her that I'm "That guy"????

wooooww dude wtf, realize that your brother is way more important than any girl in your life at this moment. dont talk him down like that.

there are soooo many girls in this world and you only have (1 i guess?) brother.

just confront him with the fact you like the girl instead of backstabbing or anything like that

exactly.. part of being a PUA is having a better understanding in life. Having a better lifestyle and positive attitude all around.. that's towards family and friends.. i think a lot of guys around here forgot about that.. it's not always about the GIRL.. having a girl in your social circle is an icing on a cake.. being a better man than you were yesterday is priceless.. family comes first before girls that you meet in the streets.. remember that!

"BROS BEFORE HOES" hahah!!!...

yeah no shit, im not saying i wanna backstab my brother.. i just want tips on how i can beat him fair in square in the game..

Dude you don't try and beat your brother at "game" that is so fricken stupid! Don't ever talk down about your family members! Dude i can't believe you would even think of selling your bro out that's low, no girl is worth that.

Ok now that i have got that rant out the way

This is what you will do, you have to be upfront with him and just tell him that you're keen on this girl.

Wit is right.

Take your brother aside and tell him that you like this girl and you want him to know that you're going to pursue her. He probably doesn't even know that you like her.

Communicate it to him and he'll probably be cool with it.

If not, the girl is not worth fighting with your brother over.

Cinnamon

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yeah i dont know where u guys are getting this idea that i wanna sell out my own brother hahaha..

but yeah thanks for the advice ill do that..

yuupp as of today my brother beat me to her

time to move on i guess

Hey man,

That sucks, but there is a lesson in it.

You should have manned up and not worried about what your brother was doing. You met the girl first and got her to hang out?

Escalate the interaction. Guys get it when you physically escalate on a girl in front of them.

I don't mean pull your cock out, but touch her more than he is, put your arm around her. Move her away from him to check something out, etc...

What you don't want to do is just be a victim and let him take girls you bring around.

Best,

S

Thanks Sinn, I appreciate the advice

Hey player, don't worry to much about it. You proved that you could game the girl by getting her number and moving up from there. It's unfortunate what happened with you're bro for real, but just learn from it, and move on bud.

If a situation ever comes up like that again though the only thing I can really say is that you should build up more attraction/escalation with your target before you bring her around you're bro. You should definitely have a talk with him about what he did though. Get him on the same page as you. Let him know that you wouldn't do that shit to him and you expect the same level of respect from him.

Just really look at it though man, you got a good number of positives from that situation, and learned a lot. Just apply it to what you have now, and you'll be that much more prepared for next time.

thanks trauma

Guess you got owned by the dipshit who could barely pass high school.

IF you want to just have a social circle.. then you could use this to your advantage.. even though your brother got the girl.. you have the confidence to get another girl.. and if she sees you just getting girls left and right.. then you will just look good in front of her.. got her slightly wondering if she even went to the right guy.. but then it's too late.. you have these beautiful ladies around you beggin.. her lost...

The best advice I can give you is firstly although it may not seem it but this girl is nowhere near as important as your brother.

I want you to visualise this ok.. she rings you and asks you round for sex, then your on your way and your brother rings and tells you hes in desperate need of your help. Now imagine going to help your brother and completely forgetting about the girl... THAT is how it should be.

now for dealing with your brother, I suggest you ignore it and see the funny side in his attempts to pick her up, when hes telling stories or trying to impress her get eye contact with her and playfully roll your eyes in a "not again" way. As Sinn quite rightly said, walk her away from him to 'show her something' and kino her more than he does.

If all else fails you can chat to your brother and tell your HB Brittney to bring a friend when you go out next and if she asks why, say to keep my brother company.

Hope this helps fella.