Hey guys, I was curious as to your opinions on how to act after a freezeout, I recently froze this girl out, cus the attraction wasnt going the way i had planned, it has been 2 and a bit weeks, and tbh ha forgot all about how her until today.... cus she messaged me, saying how i should pop down and see her.. sorry she hasnt been in contact etc...... should I be more cautious and retrace my steps, and generate attraction, or carry on where i left off...how long shall i leave it until i get on contact with her?........ and generally how to act after a freeze out, obviously the freeze out had worked, but dont know how to follow up :p...

Much thanks in advance. Deus

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Run Towards your fears because your greatest dreams are on the other side

You're going to want to gauge to see where and how she is/feeling. Take her out somewhere, if you've been buying her stuff, make her buy you coffee this time or food. Then start talking to her, do some simple kino escalation techniques like touching her lightly, pinching the arm, and when you feel like it's escalated a little bit, put your arm on her shoulder and pull her into you.

Two things will happen. If she's really into you, she will submit (location depending too), if she puts up a little resistance, then you need to keep working her.

Rinse repeat, just don't be obvious. Once she's ready. You'll know, and you'll be able to feel it.

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Regards,

Tyr

thanks thats some quality advice... i need to test where i am and what stage of attraction i am in... she has got a bf back in asia, so its a bit complicated i not getting attached or n e thing, we have kissed and stuff, it probs is to do with her bf... but now she is staying here longer than planned, and got back in contact with me. Il give it a go thanks for the advice. Deus.

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Run Towards your fears because your greatest dreams are on the other side

Dude, it sounds like that BF is either a shit test, or something she just has on her mind. DON'T LET IT PHASE YOU. You can proceed, and as long as you are getting intimate, building kino, without coming off as too strong or a "player", you'll appear to her to be an irresistible charming guy!

Good luck brother man.

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Tyr