Hey man, I'm in college too and had a girlfriend and was in your position. I was depressed too and couldn't figure my life out. I was getting girls, had friends, but it seemed like whatever i did i just wasn't happy, yet alone my grades slipped. Until one day i sat down alone and got went over my current life completely and figured out why i was depressed. For me it was that i didn't have the material things i wanted and the sex and relationship with the gf wasn't that great either. So i decided to make some changes. broke it off with my gf and focused on me. started working out, studied and when it was time to party...i partied like a rockstar. didn't focus on m life so much just took it one step at a time and made sure i only satisfied myself.

Everyone goes through this, just depends on how you handle it.
Remember to keep your chin up and stay confident cuz the ladies are always watching.

Cheeers.

It's supper normal to get deppressed from time to time. That's the cool thing about this forum, we can tell our bro's about it here. No "minus" points.

Seems like you got your mind on track with having a girlfriend and still wanting some other action. That's the way a positive thinker thinks.

I'm not prone to depresion for a couple of reasons.

A. I'm shallow as shit
B. I keep my standards pretty low. So it's hard for me to get disapointed.
C. I "actively" think positively.

Hey we all get bored. Why obsess on things that get us down? If I catch myself thinking about a bunch of boring things that get me down I immediately change the chanel to think of cool stuff, like all the gals I'd like to bang, how much money I'm gonna be making. Or a new project on my house. "Yepper, I'm old as dirt!"

Take care Bro...