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Just would be nice if there was a way through NLP to capture her imagination from the very start & get her attention & connection built. If you use it when you are that far along, while it maybe useful, it sounds like you are already in.
In those few lines your raised some excellent points, which not everyone realises who doesn't use NLP a lot in their game.
In the past I had this dilemma for a while, whereby NLP appeared to be most useful to me after the isolation or when going for the close. But as you rightfully said, surely you have it in the bag by then anyway?
I've since been using NLP SO Heavy from the open, right off the bat and I can tell you now it is definately possible -
Simply approach and say something situational to pace, then immediately 'launch' into patterning, if you will, by transitioning with a softener such as 'just curious...' or 'I was just reading a psychology book and...'
etc.
It is often a good idea to ask a question about them that get's them to imagine themselves doing something. This sends them in their head, bypasses their critical faculty while you take the opportunity to feed her subconscious embedded messages.
I actually did this at Borders today (bookstore) as I was reading a fantastic psychology book on flirting, and happened to spot a girl wearing tights. If a fit girl is wearing tights, you can trust me to be talking to her in no time.
I did video this particular pickup but there's a bigass shelf in the way!! Don't worry, I will get there with this video thing. Soon I can show you what I mean when I say "heavy" on NLP =)