I was wondering what are some ways people get into state when theyre heading out for the night...ways to pump themselves up and just feel good and not care

what I do:

When im rollin out i have a specific cd with hard beats and driving rythms...mostly hip hop but some trance and house too...then while im rollin in my car i just start dancin with tons of energy and i dont care if people stare or not which kind of helps me not care in the venue plus it just gets me totally hyped and lovin life...and i can imagine its a pretty funny sight seein a skinny white boy that cant dance goin crazy drivin down the street in his red jetta with the music blastin...

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I have things I do to. I just did a video about this actually...

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dude, right before i went out tonight i got crunk in my car to some lil' wayne and just having an upbeat rhythm in my head and my step made my social anxiety go away...thanks man

If I'm goin out with some friends to a club or a bar, and I know it's gonna be a long night, there are a few things I do to get myself into the zone.

1) Be in a great mood before I even leave the house. I do this by listening to some of my favorite up-beat songs, or just paling around with my boys.

2) If it's gonna be a drinking night, I try to pre-game a little bit to help keep my mind loose and to shake off any excess doubt or worry. This also helps by keeping you away from going overboard at the bar on drinks. Granted, if you have self control it's no big deal. They call it liquid courage for a reason.

3) Make myself look good, then tell myself I look good. This is a nice confidence booster I use on myself. If you're feelin good about yourself then you give off a nice vibe to those around you, and it translates into confidence.

These are just a few things I personally do...not saying they are right or wrong, but I haven't seen or noticed anything negative about doing those. I'm really new to the PUA scene, so unless somebody with experience says those are worth doing, I'd take it with a grain of salt.