Alright i was talking to this chick before winter break for a littler bit and the other day I was sitting and eating lunch with some of my friends and she came and sat beside me and we talked for a little bit just getting to know each other more and all that, so i ask her wats she doing this weekend, and she gave me her number and I ended up giving her a ride back to her dorm, but the thing is my buddies wanted to go downtown and shes 18 so i didnt call her but Im thinkin of asking her if she wants to eat lunch with me again to build some more comfort with her and hopefully ask her to a movie out or at my place. Im a big guy not fat but muscular cuz i play college fball so i gotta avoid the whole creeping her out deal. what do u guys think i should do? Thanks!

Jesus Christ man, just go for it. The fact that she came and sat down next to you in front of your friends took a lot of courage for her, it is an SOI.

Just ask her out before it's too late. And although it doesn't really matter, your idea of a 'date' sounds real clichéd and AFC. Do something different for Christ's sake.

The #1 problem in FR's is people being too scared, reluctant or reserved to just GO FOR IT.

Just do it man, you've already got this one in the bag.

Thanks man! I have confidence issues and I am trying to work on that, so when u mean by something different, like bowling or some sort like that and then progress to a dinner. Im looking for a relationship with this girl so how do i treat it differenty from just trying to f-close her?

Im not being an ass or anything but why do you want to be in a relationship with this girl? is it because of your confidence issues and your scared you wont find another girl as hot? It seems like you dont know this girl well enough to want a relationship w/ her on anything other than her looks. Thats besides the point, taking her out to dinner is boring and what every AFC usually does instead text her and tell,not ask(believe me), her that youre going to the bar on thur(or whenever) or going skating or trying this awesome new gelato, anything that doesnt sound like a date and shes comin w/ u example: "alrite so were goin ice skkatin next week at kennedy "
thats an actual Aim convo i just had so go out there and get her cause shes obviously into you and will go with u wherever u want

Hey dude, glad you took my advice well. When people do that, I offer them more thoughts!

If you want a relationship with her, f-close her then inject MASSIVE amounts of comfort after the f-close.

An AFC relationship:

Eventually stumble over her # => text her for 10 years before setting up day 2 => "take things slowly" => supplicate => get friendzoned.

A PUA relationship:

Get # in 5 mins (assuming bad logistics) => set up day 2 => do whatever, end by laying her => transition to relationship; LTR/FB.

The best way to get a relationship with a girl is to lay her. Simple as. If you aren't ready for this, then just treat the date as if you are going to f-close her, but instead at the end, tell her logistics are bad and end with k-close and set up day-3, or intention for day-3.

But there is no substitute for f-closing. You owe it to the girl, if you want a relationship. It is your duty.

In terms of unique/interesting dates, haha, anything but the movies. I mean, being a PUA you can still take her to the movies, or do anything for that matter, so long as you don't chode it up. But much simpler just to do anything unique. Have some creativity. Set up a picnic in the middle of nowhere. Take her caviar tasting. Lock yourself in one room with her and a load of alcohol and weed. Drive her somewhere with nowhere in mind. Find some field to walk through (a personal favourite). Find a forest to explore. Take her grocery shopping. Take her to the aquarium. Take her to see a football game. Whatever.

The main thing you do, is set up the date anywhere, but plant the seed that for some reason you need to go back to yours (or hers, or both) later on. E.g. she just HAS to check out your portrait of the queen (I hate the queen, just for the record), or, she can come and meet your doggy later if she behaves. Etc. Then you can draw on this later to bounce.

Once you f-close, cuddle her, tell her she's special (in short qualify her), and show her that you're not just in it for the sex. Women love this shit. THIS critical 30 mins is how you make a relationship. It may be as short as 5 mins. Give her the debrief. Rationalise for her why she had sex with a random stranger on the first day (or something close to it). Also, use time distortions - say things like "This night has been amazing, and I bet you can imagine a time in the future, perhaps 9 months from now, still remember this incredible connection and looking back on a time like now as having been the start of it all." (That is an SS bit). This will make it seem in her mind as if she is already in a relationship with you. After all this, the morning after you can make it official (ask her out), though from my experience it's better to do that on a day 3.

Hope that helps buddy.

Look at this post - it has lots of fun day2 ideas...
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ahh well i called her a couple times yesterday to hang out yesterday and never called back and found out today shes got a bf. Not 2 dissapointed bout it cuz i dont think shes my type anyways. Thanks for the advice anyways fellas!

u really need to read on these forums or about game in general. never call a girl multiple times without her calling u back; needy. i think the fact that she has a boyfriend made her not your type. why would u come on here ask for advice about a date if she wasnt your type.

well i only called twice, and i figure i would call a second time cuz i thought she was in class. I asked around about her cuz i know some of her friends and she wasnt into the same stuff i was into.