| when i was younger, i would hold back at talking to girls, for various reasons, just had that teen approach anxiety that would freeze me out. when i got sick of it i decided id overcome this and without really noticing i kind of became a natural in about 6 months. i had a week game but i was so confident in myself that sets would just fly open. id never heard of the community but i still had a commitment to change. i needed to become stronger, not physically but mentally. i started doing martial arts and found the "venusian arts" kind of at the very same time
as it says in mystery's book, they do have a lot in common, but the thing is, it has given me confidence, not from one night to another, but every day i just walk a little bit taller and feel more and more secure. a year ago i had no game and could get amoged by anyone. now, the only person that could amog me, is my trainer, along with solid game, i can say my life has changed. it's true, pick up is more than just picking up women. its about making a life.
I'm not saying that go and become a UFC fighter, but if you have deep confidence and inner game issues, try martial arts. muay thai or MMA should do. its nice to walk into a club and know that you are safe, that no one in there can harm you. i never ever get that feeling of "what if she has a big ass boyfriend". now its kinda like well i hope his boyfriend doesnt try to act supid or....(by the way, ive never got into a fight, so that BS ideas that girls boyfriends can kick your ass... their all in your head) This also helps your game: gives you confidence like hell (rock solid one)makes you super fit (as in having an eightpack, sixpacks and beer bellys is for loosers) and gives you a lot to talk about, theres nothing like going out to game after you have finished training. try it!
hope this helps. just wanted to share this with you guys.
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