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Don't divulge everything in the first meeting either.
This is a HUGE mistake many guys make.
You have to keep a certain amount of anonymity with women, never let them figure you out. Use a shroud of mystery to keep them in suspense. This is a great way to keep IL up.
I'm going to have to throw down my experience on this one as well, and it's happened to me too. You just get started, you got a couple cool routines you feel you have down. And you work all your magic on the first date.
What happens the next time you see her? She's going to expect you to do tricks, have you ever tried to learn new material and then try demonstrating it two seconds later? Not so easy, try and avoid this by sitting down, using some material, if she asks you personal questions, playfully say, "hey if I told you, then there wouldn't be anything to look forward to the next time I pick you up".
Definitely talk to her and use kino escalation all the while trying to be interesting. I know it seems like a lot but even musicians and martial artists focus on ten different things at once to achieve their desired effect.
One technique I like to use when I was reading up on Mystery was this:
As you are leaning back being interesting and passionate, you need to build kino. While you speak, never outright command her, you need to send subtle messages (think Ross Jeffries on this), then you should put your hands out with your palms facing upwards. While you are speaking, and that you've obviously been creating attraction between the both of you, without even saying anything she will put her hands on yours. At this point you just push and pull on her hands for a moment, if there is any tension, you just need to build her up some more.
This is a great way to find out if they are ready to get closer to you physically and whether your charm is working (as it should be!).
Enjoy mate.
CHAT
