Hey guys, whats up. I will introduce myself. My alias is "Simple". This (SeekNDestroy) is an alternative nickname, because the other nickname was already used by another fellow here in the forum. Im from Chile (sorry about my bad english sometimes) and Im writing a method about the danceflor, a place that a lot of PUAs avoid. Why is this?:

-Music is too loud, its hard to establish a conversation
-Girls are there to dance, not to chat (there are a few exceptions)
-You don't know how to dance?
-You don't know how to aproach?
-You want to talk to her while you are dancing, but don't know what to say?

Im assuming some of these things are happening to you. If thats the case, continue reading. If thats not the case, continue reading (there may be useful things you might want to use).


Rule number 1

FIrst of all, we are going to change our attitude. There are 4 important things we have to take with us into the dancefloor, and don't even think about stepping in without them:

-The desire to have the night of your life
-Confidence
-A smile on your face
-Lets rock this club

Very easy

Now, I'll put it like this. Once you have those 4 in your pockets, its time to rock:

Imagine every single person inside the dancefloor is painted by one of these two colors:

Red (High Energy)

Red people are having a lot of fun. You can see 3 HBs dancing like crazy. They are red. You also can see a huge circle of 7 friends dancing and having fun. They are all smiling and singing. They are also red. People in red are enjoying the hell out of them. So, you are red, and VERY red.

Blue (Low Energy)

Blue people are bored. They dont enjoy the music, they just dance because the payed for it. They dont smile, and ocasionally look from side to side because his/her dancing partner is too boring. They dont move too much while dancing and it looks like if they were dancing by heart. These are easy to persuade! They WANT to have fun, but they can't, because you havent arrived yet.



Your Mission

Your mission will be to dance with the girl you want. But to achieve that, first we have to convert BLUE people into RED people. So from the moment you step in the danceflor you are RED like pepper. You shout, you dance while you walk, you smile, you sing. If you see BLUE people walking in your opposite direction, you shout to them: "This club is fucking crazyyyyyy! Yeaaahhh!" And you smile to them. They smile back. They turned a little RED !

Now you start dancing alone and having fun with yourself. You are so concentrated in the music that you close your eyes and make some dance moves. If you dont know how to dance or you are just not good at it, remember, ITS NOT BIG DEAL. You are having fun, and thats attractive.

Now people start to look at you, and suddenly you see 3 BLUE HBs dancing next to you, one of them is your target. You ass bump her (hit her ass with yours. This is called a non-verbal opener. Try non-verbal operners always). She looks at you and you smile. Now she smiles. Now she is RED ! And now you start dancing with her. You demonstrated confidence, you are having fun, you are smiling, of course she wants to dance with you .

Remember, if you are not RED, then it will be very difficult to succeed in the dancefloor. If you want to dance with RED HBs, you MUST be RED too.

Ok, this is a piece of my method, I hope you like it, its a long method though, and because Im from South America, its kind of hard to translate it to english. So probably I made a lot of mistakes here. Sorry about that!

See you around guys, bye

If you show confidence and that you are having a great time, you will get positive reactions from girls. It happend to me this saturday at the dance club. It also makes you feel good.

Personally, I wouldn't sing along too much, it can often give the wrong impression, that you are dacing anyway and having a good time will be enough.

Also, do not shut your eyes, shutting your eyes gives the impression that you are not comfortable in your surroundings and want to pretend none of it is actually there, always have your eyes open, and a smile on your face.

A girl can always tell if it is genuine too, if your eyes are smiling then its genuine, if they aren't then its fake - 'smiling eyes' are the shape your eyes make when you are genuinely happy and having a good time.

- SC

Have you ever tried to talk to girls while dancing with them. Well I tried it and it didn't go well, soon after another guy stole her.

But my question is how to make progress from dancing to more (kissing, talking, getting number, etc.)

This is simply because you did not demonstrate any higher value to her, the other guy came in and thanks to the weak impression you gave he seemed like the coolest guy at the club. You just need to work on your attraction at the moment, you won't get any further if you don't build on this.

Kiss closing in a club is really quite easy, hell, if you can dance then you can kiss close, so there is no real challenge there, a number is a little different, girls will usually go to a club knowing they will kiss x amount of guys, they will not go out thinking they will exchange numbers with one of those guys, so you need a little bit of comfort here.

Work on the attration phase at the moment though, then follow with the rest, it is better to take months to have perfect game than to spend days developing a second rate one.

- SC

the way to escalate dancing? well dancing is already strong kino(as in grinding) but wen i dance i think of it like sex you dance to the beat then u put her hand on ur ass like a compliance test if it stays there. your hands on the hips move to the ass.compliance? good touch her neck and move her hair out of the way and breath on the neck and turn her on just like sex. then light kisses on her neck. compliance? time to finish. turn her around look into her eyes and make out. boom. dance a little longer then lead her to a couch and continue the sarge there

Great Method SeekNDestroy.

Dancefloor is another weapon I am looking to add to my game.

I am no stranger to the Dancefloor in general, and can dance...so this should go well. I'll keep ya's posted on successes.

Cheers!

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Who are YOU?!

No wrong impression if you sing man, you just are having a great time, and you shouldnt care of what other people think about you.

As a teacher of this i can tell you that These are the key skills needed


Key skills needed for my dance game involve:

1) Being able to do moves that no or virtually no other guys in the club is doing, can door has ever seen. You can watch so many forms of dancing on the net which most people have never seen. If you can learn these lots of people will want to chat and dance with you.
2) Putting a big smile on most peoples faces, especially the ladies.
3) Dancing in accordance with the music, have at least basic rhythm.
4) Give the impression you love dancing and your having a great time.
5) Not looking round too much for women and not giving the impression your just on the dance floor to women hunt.
6) Need to be in state and have lots of energy.
7) High fiving lots of people and not just girls. Chatting to who ever wishes to speak to you, but not spending to much time doing this.
Not allowing girls to think they can easily get a dance with you.
9) Showing you have the guts to do pretty much what you want will demonstrate confidence.
10) Inventing your own dance moves as it shows innovation and people will come up to you or your mates and want to chat about it, typical comments I’ve never seen such dancing, where did you learn to dance like that, can you teach me, where you from.
11) Being prepared for various questions like the above will help your game more.

Nice post. I like your method

My experience with dance floor game is okay so far. Im not a bad dancer. Proximity happens so much on the dancefloor its crazy. Couple of things that i've learnt.

1. Dance like nobody is watching - If your confident then it will show, no matter how stupid your dancing looks...just dont DLV by dancing by your self.

2. Going Caveman isnt as bad IME. Just dont get too clingy - Basically lets say you spin a girl around, make sure you throw her hand away. OR dont keep grinding on her ass, give her some space. If a song like YMCA comes on most of the guys having fun start acting gay, its just the desperate loosers that stay behind the girl.

3. If your good at dancing then its a huge DHV. Girls love dancing and if you can do it good than thats a big plus.

4. If your going to take a girl to the Dance Floor after you've got Attraction, try and go an area that is crowded so that its easier to Kino Escalate and she wont feel as though everyone is watching her. Just dont let the sexual tension dissipate by making out for so long.

5. Dont look around too much, if you are peacocked you can lock a girl in with one of your lock in props.

Thats all i know so far. I still want to experiment with a few stuff on Dancefloor game. Ill get back soon.

Simple,
You are right on with this method. I actually read about a method pretty similar to this one on www.sterlingslounge.com. It really does work. I've tried it. I think it's funny that two different PUA's use a similar method to get girls on the dance floor. Check it out and try it out! The key thing is that you've gotta be confident... if you're going on the dance floor wondering what other people are thinking about your dancing then you're not confident